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The last time lo saw her father was when I took her to a Harvest Festival for Halloween. He called last saturday and told me his mother wanted me to bring lo to church. (why she couldn't call I'll never know) But I show up with lo and it turns out they had friends and family day. So after church I messaged him to say we were in the area if he wanted me to stop by so he could see his daughter. He made excuses and just as I was about to leave he said well come to my aunts house.
He sits there looking at her for a few minutes... and later that night he messages me and says I feel my daughter doesn't know me (ya think) He calls daily and ask me to but him on speaker. we my one year old thinks the phone is DA DA. she hasn't properly realized that the phone isn't da da.. so there are times where I"m on the phone and she'll yell DA DA and I'm trying to explain to a YEAR OLD "No baby this isn't da da, this is your granny or aunt ect" She still yells DA DA! DA DA! and I explain over and over. Well anyway.. he calls and demands my work schedule and I say why. he tells me he wants to see his daughter for the holiday then changes his mind... he later comes back and says well I have friday off.. I say do you want to see her? he says Well. we'll see... I told him well you need to let me know ahead of time so that I can make arrangements, we're suppose to be going out of town he says well can I come.. I said no we're staying the night... he says I wanna go and I say no.. he laughs.. he does things like that to see where my head is and what I think... he also tried to tap me on the bottom when he saw me... I told him NOT EVEN! He tries to use her as a pawn and tries to control the situation... but it makes me angry to know that he only wants to see her for the Holiday but makes excuses for everything else.. aside from paying support (only twice) Lo is 13 months! he hasn't bought diapers, wipes, ointment, He's bought (boy clothes) and a few things from a garage sales (his mother got) (no issue)
HE makes me so UPSET but I try to talk calmly and explain what i feels is in our childs best interest.
He sits there looking at her for a few minutes... and later that night he messages me and says I feel my daughter doesn't know me (ya think) He calls daily and ask me to but him on speaker. we my one year old thinks the phone is DA DA. she hasn't properly realized that the phone isn't da da.. so there are times where I"m on the phone and she'll yell DA DA and I'm trying to explain to a YEAR OLD "No baby this isn't da da, this is your granny or aunt ect" She still yells DA DA! DA DA! and I explain over and over. Well anyway.. he calls and demands my work schedule and I say why. he tells me he wants to see his daughter for the holiday then changes his mind... he later comes back and says well I have friday off.. I say do you want to see her? he says Well. we'll see... I told him well you need to let me know ahead of time so that I can make arrangements, we're suppose to be going out of town he says well can I come.. I said no we're staying the night... he says I wanna go and I say no.. he laughs.. he does things like that to see where my head is and what I think... he also tried to tap me on the bottom when he saw me... I told him NOT EVEN! He tries to use her as a pawn and tries to control the situation... but it makes me angry to know that he only wants to see her for the Holiday but makes excuses for everything else.. aside from paying support (only twice) Lo is 13 months! he hasn't bought diapers, wipes, ointment, He's bought (boy clothes) and a few things from a garage sales (his mother got) (no issue)
HE makes me so UPSET but I try to talk calmly and explain what i feels is in our childs best interest.
