Hello,
I started a discussion board here a few weeks ago asking for some words of hope from anyone that had gone though the experience of receiving a positive quad screen result. I just turned 35 and was given a 1/46 chance of having a baby with Downs when the average for my age was around 1/250. I was devastated by the news, even though my husband and I would have loved the baby no matter what, it's very scary to think that your baby can be born with any kind of health issues or abnormalities. After finding out, I began scouring through message boards all over the web looking for some clarity, I had absolutely no idea about the rate of false positives this test can give. Other women's stories really gave me comfort and I swore that I would share my story when all was said and done.
After receiving the results I was advised to meet with a genetic counselor who didn't do the best job of calming me down but did suggest the Maternit21 test as a next step and explained that in reality my results meant that I had a 98% change of having a healthy baby, felt a little better but I kept thinking I was going to be the "1". I decided to take the Maternit21 because the test sounded very accurate and I was hoping to avoid amnio at all cost. 2 grueling weeks later I still hadn't heard anything so I followed up with the genetic counselor who informed me that everything came back perfectly normal. As happy as I was to hear that our baby was going to be born without any neural tube defects, it really sunk in how absolutely stressed and scared I had been for over 2 weeks - which is definitely not great for pregnancy. I was really kicking myself for not doing the Maternit21 from the get go and kind of mad that this quad test even exists when it puts so many women through this for no reason what so ever.
My advice to anyone going through the same thing is to stay positive, know that more than likely everything is wonderful with your baby, talk to the women in your family and your girlfriends, I bet there is someone that went through a similar situation that can make you feel better, it definitely helped me. Hang in there! For those of you that are thinking of taking the quad test, I HIGHLY recommend you go straight to Maternit21 if your insurance will cover some of it and your Dr. provides it, it is still fairly new. Thanks to anyone who left me kind thoughts when I was going through all of this and please feel free to contact me if you need someone to talk to.
I started a discussion board here a few weeks ago asking for some words of hope from anyone that had gone though the experience of receiving a positive quad screen result. I just turned 35 and was given a 1/46 chance of having a baby with Downs when the average for my age was around 1/250. I was devastated by the news, even though my husband and I would have loved the baby no matter what, it's very scary to think that your baby can be born with any kind of health issues or abnormalities. After finding out, I began scouring through message boards all over the web looking for some clarity, I had absolutely no idea about the rate of false positives this test can give. Other women's stories really gave me comfort and I swore that I would share my story when all was said and done.
After receiving the results I was advised to meet with a genetic counselor who didn't do the best job of calming me down but did suggest the Maternit21 test as a next step and explained that in reality my results meant that I had a 98% change of having a healthy baby, felt a little better but I kept thinking I was going to be the "1". I decided to take the Maternit21 because the test sounded very accurate and I was hoping to avoid amnio at all cost. 2 grueling weeks later I still hadn't heard anything so I followed up with the genetic counselor who informed me that everything came back perfectly normal. As happy as I was to hear that our baby was going to be born without any neural tube defects, it really sunk in how absolutely stressed and scared I had been for over 2 weeks - which is definitely not great for pregnancy. I was really kicking myself for not doing the Maternit21 from the get go and kind of mad that this quad test even exists when it puts so many women through this for no reason what so ever.
My advice to anyone going through the same thing is to stay positive, know that more than likely everything is wonderful with your baby, talk to the women in your family and your girlfriends, I bet there is someone that went through a similar situation that can make you feel better, it definitely helped me. Hang in there! For those of you that are thinking of taking the quad test, I HIGHLY recommend you go straight to Maternit21 if your insurance will cover some of it and your Dr. provides it, it is still fairly new. Thanks to anyone who left me kind thoughts when I was going through all of this and please feel free to contact me if you need someone to talk to.