Peanut112
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Hello ladies,
We're all here for a reason.. We all have one thing in common.
Miscarriage.
Nobody wants to miscarry or experience the heartbreak of a miscarriage. Nobody wants to feel the physical or emotional pain of losing something that was such a big part of us.
A lot of us feel like nobody feels the same way, whether it be others who have miscarried or our OH's... and CERTAINLY not those who have had successful pregnancies.
Some of us feel like failures. Some of us never get over that pain or never get another chance to have a successful pregnancy. Some of us can't even conceive in the first place.
It's hard, it's hard on all of us. But you're not alone and it's definitely not your fault. Yes, it's a lot easier said than done. I know. I know this because I lost mine at 11 weeks. March 18th, 2015. Then I was told I probably couldn't conceive again. I still cry... and I know that the pain will never go away.. But I also know that life goes on and no matter how hard things get, you still have to move forward... and as much as you want to give up, you can't. Because great things will happen for you..
You might not have the baby (fetus? Whatever you'd like to call it, I don't mean to offend anyone) running around or still growing inside of you.. But there will be another chance, it may not be THAT chance.. but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason. Whatever reason that may be... It must have been a good one to take something so precious away.
All you ladies here are strong, you have the strength to do the things you do every day and try and move forward.
Never give up.
We're all here for a reason.. We all have one thing in common.
Miscarriage.
Nobody wants to miscarry or experience the heartbreak of a miscarriage. Nobody wants to feel the physical or emotional pain of losing something that was such a big part of us.
A lot of us feel like nobody feels the same way, whether it be others who have miscarried or our OH's... and CERTAINLY not those who have had successful pregnancies.
Some of us feel like failures. Some of us never get over that pain or never get another chance to have a successful pregnancy. Some of us can't even conceive in the first place.
It's hard, it's hard on all of us. But you're not alone and it's definitely not your fault. Yes, it's a lot easier said than done. I know. I know this because I lost mine at 11 weeks. March 18th, 2015. Then I was told I probably couldn't conceive again. I still cry... and I know that the pain will never go away.. But I also know that life goes on and no matter how hard things get, you still have to move forward... and as much as you want to give up, you can't. Because great things will happen for you..
You might not have the baby (fetus? Whatever you'd like to call it, I don't mean to offend anyone) running around or still growing inside of you.. But there will be another chance, it may not be THAT chance.. but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason. Whatever reason that may be... It must have been a good one to take something so precious away.
All you ladies here are strong, you have the strength to do the things you do every day and try and move forward.
Never give up.
