Hormonal imbalance???

[KayKe]

Hi girls


A quick pre history.

I have two boys from previous relationship. No problems TTC. Actually, both times first planned time.

After that, had a removal of my right ovary and tubes (cyst).

Regular periods after that, but had an IUD.

Then met my current partner. He has a son from a previous relationship, BUT, he was born after 12 years!! of IVFs.
My current partner has (had) a very very low sperm count (when he was last tested, it was 2 millions).

We decided, we want a baby. So have been trying for over a year, with no results. There was one cycle, when I had a few dodgy positive tests, but a week later my period started... So I don't know what to think (even if I were pregnant, it was not meant to be).

So, now, we decided just not to hope so much. IVF is not an option, and we can not even apply to sponsorship for it, as both of us have kids from previous relationships...


What does pisses me off... There are some cycles, when, before my period is due, I have all the pregnancy symptoms.
Nausea, tiredness, dizziness, tender boobs...
But. I am never late (except that time).

BUT. This cycle. I was due yesterday. On the 14.03. But, there is no usual sign of the period. No tender breasts, no tummy pain...
What I DO have - NAUSEA. Big time. After eating. And in the car. Feeling bleeeeh.
Done pregnancy test - negative.

Do you think my hormones might be out of balance? If so, which ones should I check?
(I eat well, am not overly overweight, lead healthy and active lifestyle).

I just find it is so CRUEL of my body, to make me feel like this...

 

[Myshelsong]

I think stress can play havoc on our cycles and if he has really low sprrm count that is probably your issue, not your hormones,
Have you guys considered drugs for him to get his count up? Depending on the issues why his count is low they have had great sucess with chlomid and vitamin therapy.

 

[KayKe]

Myshelong:

thank you for your reply


We were thinking about IVF, and getting tested... But, for now due to various issues decided to put it off


What annoys me is, why my period is late? And I feel nauseous? BUT, pregnancy test shows negative?

I just want to know what's going on... Constantly on my mind. Like, if I'm pregnant-I'm pregnant.
And if I'm not - then wtf is going on with my body?!

Agrrrrr! So so frustrating!

 

[KayKe]

An update...

Period as it should be is still not here... On Friday I had a very very very light spot when wiping. Thought af is here, but nothing.

Then, yesterday (Thursday) morning had same light spot. Again thought af finally arrived. Had also cramping. Put in tampon, being sure it's af... But nothing all day...
Then, in the evening a small red spot when wiping, was definitely sure it's the start of af. Put on a pad and went to sleep (thinking the pad should be full of blood in the morning, that's how it's usually is, if I get blood-spot, it's the start of af and within hours it's in a full flow). Woke up, nothing on the pad, just orangy brown discharge when I wipe.
Cramping continues....

What freaks me out... I made a 10iui test, early one. And I can see two lines... What is going on??!

Actually made two same brand tests, and on both light lines...

 

[KayKe]

Sorry, for the pic quality... Second line is really faint.. But my 7yo pointed it straight out...

 

[KayKe]

Another pic

 

[KayKe]

Since I hate myself unfinished stories...

Today, after 10 days of being late, my period started . Also made a blood test, HCG was <1, so safe to say I was not pregnant and my body was playing cruel jokes on me((

 

[Mrs W 11]

I'm sorry lovely, no advice but sending hugs x

 

[Myshelsong]

So so sorry hun, wish you could luck next time around.