horrible day

[isil]

Last week Ally's Dad has asked for his rent back that he paid for this month. I said that although I didn't have it, I would give him it back at some point. I said that first as well, I wanted him to pay the council tax bill that he was meant to pay.

Today he texted and asked if he could have the money today. I texted back saying that I'd had a bill for the council tax, had to pay to get the tenancy changed (so I can claim housing benefit) and also had to feed and clothe our son. He said he'd paid the bill and the tenancy was my problem and that he didn't have enough money to eat. I pointed out that last week maybe he shouldn't have started smoking again and been getting take away every night. He said that that was last week and he needed it and I'd have to borrow it off my parents. I said that I couldn't do that and he'd have to wait. He then texted my Mum!!! and asked her for the money. I think she said no (they really can't afford it) but now I'm so worried that he's going to turn up here and demand it or take Ally as ransome or something (that probably sounds really stupid).

To top it all off, I went on to facebook and he's changed his status to say I stopped him seeing Ally

 

[Vickie]

sorry he's acting like that

 

[princess_bump]

oh honey am so sorry he's being like this x x x

 

[Serene123]

Tell him to shove his demands up his ARSE and you're not giving him the money.

 

[isil]

my best friends Mum just said to tell him no whenever he asks and not enter into an argument about it. Think that's good advice.

He texted me late last night and said he was sorry about how he'd acted today and that I was to keep the money for me and Ally. I am glad he texted but it's kind of bitter sweet because I'm sure it's not the last time he'll do this.

 

[clairebear]

im sorry u have to go through this x x

 

[brownhairedmom]

Wow that's not very nice!

 

[Mummy&bump]

i wudnt be given him the moeny back hun! if u think about it its the 2 of uz that have split not him and ur son, and ur wee man needs a roof over his head which is jus as much his responsabilty! its good hes text apologising though! im sure uz are both jus goin thru the hurt faze at the moment

xx

 

[xarlenex]

Glad he came around and apologised for being an ass!

 

[Naya69]

he should not be acting like that in the first place and how dare he phone and ask your mum for it its none of your mums bussiness i would be fummin if my ex did that i would of kept the money anyway and feed and clothe my little boy not hand it over to him to waste away

keep your chin up things will get better xxxx