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"House training" my baby!

jessmke

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OK I admit that I know absolutely nothing about babies. My daughter is my first child and I am just sort of winging it. I do, however, know a lot about dogs. So today I decided to see what would happen if I "house trained" my baby as if she were a puppy - meaning giving her an opportunity to pee after waking, 15 min after eating, and every two hours otherwise. In the first two hours we had two pees in the potty! She has been doing a great deal of sleeping today (growth spurt) so we haven't had a lot of opportunity to try this out, but I am excited that I have two fewer diapers to wash!
 
There is a thing called elimination communication. If you are really interested in the baby peeing in a toilet look it up. It involves reading signals from your baby and going diaper free. I know someone who tried it, but I don't think it went well. It's an interesting idea anyways.
 
Even if a 2-month-old somehow had the cognitive capacity to understand toilet training, the neuromuscular control necessary for urinary continence doesn't develop until waaaaay later. Young babies pee whenever and wherever the urge strikes them, usually every few hours. Learning your daughter's cues and putting her over the toilet regularly could certainly cut down on the number of wet diapers you have to change, but to me that sounds like more work rather than less! :)
 
^^ what they said.

I go back and forth on my own views of this phenomenon, but yay for 2 less diapers!
 
Even if a 2-month-old somehow had the cognitive capacity to understand toilet training, the neuromuscular control necessary for urinary continence doesn't develop until waaaaay later. Young babies pee whenever and wherever the urge strikes them, usually every few hours. Learning your daughter's cues and putting her over the toilet regularly could certainly cut down on the number of wet diapers you have to change, but to me that sounds like more work rather than less! :)

Yep, this.

Holding a baby over a toilet until they pee sounds like a lot more work than throwing a couple of extra diapers in the wash... but it's your time, not mine!
 
Oh I don't by any means expect to be potty training her this young, I just thought it would be good for her to be familiar with the potty so when it does come time to training her it isn't a foreign concept. My sister and my best friend have each had a child that was horrible to potty train because they were terrified of the potty. I wanted to introduce Isla to the potty but wasn't sure how to go about doing it so that she would actually pee in it, so I decided to do it like I was house training a puppy. The first time she woke from a nap, I took off her diaper, held her over the potty and she peed. Took about 15 seconds. Same after I nursed her an hour later. If figure if those 30 seconds a day saves me months of grief down the road then great! If not, oh well, it was only 30 seconds out of my day! And a little less laundry!
 
Unfortunately toddler fears aren't really rational or predictable things. That said, there are a lot of ways to familiarize children with important concepts :) My daughter has always followed me into the bathroom and watched me use the toilet, and I also had a little potty set out for her in the bathroom from an early age. I never made her use it or forced the issue; she started showing an interest on her own at around 2 years old and was full potty trained within a few months after that. Fear was never an issue. I do know someone who did elimination communication and her child hates - HATES - the toilet. I don't think that's because of the EC, it's just the way he is. There's only so much you can control, you know? Babies are going to develop at their own pace, no matter how much we like to think otherwise.
 
As mentioned, this is called "elimination communication." If you start using a hand signal every time you offer the toilet, your child is likely to pick up on it and begin requesting the toilet before being able to verbally ask for it. My oldest never picked up on the sign, but could say "potty," by about 14 months old and was regularly requesting the potty. My son picked up on the sign and was regularly using it for a while. He hasn't been using it lately, but when we was using it, would request up to half the time. Another thing you can do is look for signs/signals that your child needs to go. For example, sometimes when Leo needs to poop, he'll sit a certain way and either look at me or into space. When you "house train" your baby, progress is certainly not linear, but it sounds like you have the right attitude about it. It's a great way to begin the process of potty learning. Right now, my 11 month old is mostly peeing in the potty after nap times and in the morning, but with time I imagine he'll begin requesting again. As he gets more into toddler-hood, I'll probably give him some diaper-free time and use it as an additional step in the learning process. And if he learns to use the potty early, great. If he doesn't, I'll wait until he's old enough to be receptive to "potty training." My oldest had lots of ups and downs with the potty. Using this method, however, she was completely out of diapers (during waking hours) for the month that she was 18 months old. I think with another personality, that would have been the end of potty "training." With her personality, however, there were a bunch of ups and downs and she was in and out of diapers until I "potty trained" her at a few months short of 3. She has continued to have ups and downs, but not to the point of needing to go back into diapers.
 
Oh, another bit of advice that's also a bit like puppy training. Try to get her to associate peeing/pooping with a particular verbal cue. It can be a /ssss/ sound or it can be a word like "pee" or "poop." With my first, I tried to make a sound and with my second, I stick to words.
 
My MIL has been hounding me to do this since I was about 20 minutes pregnant with my son. Following out of interest, I didn't know it was a thing. Don't think I'd ever do it though.
 
Oh, another bit of advice that's also a bit like puppy training. Try to get her to associate peeing/pooping with a particular verbal cue. It can be a /ssss/ sound or it can be a word like "pee" or "poop." With my first, I tried to make a sound and with my second, I stick to words.

Thanks for the tips! I definitely think we will catch her poops in the potty on a regular basis, she always poops around the same time each day and makes very distinctive noises when she has to go! I have a deaf dog and a hearing dog so in our house there is already a verbal cue and hand signal to 'go pee', I'll try those with Isla when we use the potty!
 

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