If you need a graph, chart or calculator to tell you that you are overweight, then you need a new mirror! I don't need to know my BMI to know that I'm obese.
My OH is obsessed with BMI, he's very fit (can run up mountains, does heavy weight lifting yadda yadda) but because his BMI is slightly above where it should be, he's always raving on and on about it. Blerk.
I think a lot of people do need it actually. Like when I was 10.5 stone I was pushing overweight (I'm 5'5) but I felt and thought I looked exactly the same as how I was at 9.5, or 8.5, or 8.... Looking back I can see I was fat but at the time I felt the same as I feel now and it's so easy to kid yourself, or if you already have a crappy view of yourself as so many women do it's easy just to see your fatter body as the same as your 'normal' body which you thought was fat anyway. Am I even making any sense?!?! Without a BMI saying I was overweight I probably would have thought I was normal, is what I'm trying to say. And without a BMI chart telling me that my normal weight of 9 stone is healthy, I'd probably truly consider myself now to be overweight, like I did as a teenager.