How annoying!!!!!

[lou_w34]

Me again!!! lol

So my friend sends me a text at half 6 this morning (Lucky i was already awake lol) to say that FOB has tried to add her on FB and sent her a message asking for my number???

Urrrggggg turns out me thinking he had finally left us alone was actually him deleating my number and then changing his mind 6 weeks later! Im guessing his GF made him deleat it.

The question is do i give it to him?? Everypart of my body is screaming NOOOOOOOO! lol

My friend mesaged him back saying that he already had it and i havent changed it lol So we will see what he says to that!

What i dont get though is that at least 4 of his friends have my number.... so why not ask them for it??

xxxx

 

[sweetlullaby]

Pah! I wouldn't give him it He deleted it for a reason why give him it just because he's suddenly decided he wants it. Bet it's the girlfriend being nosey wanting to "see his cute little baby". Can you tell im grumpy this morning

In reality if he really wants your number he can get it off one of his "mates"

 

[lou_w34]

My thoughts exactly!!

Apparently he has a new phone.... BUT...
why not write my number down?
why take 6 weeks to bother getting it?
why not ask your friends??

I dont buy it, i think its an excuse, and even if it isnt you think he would be more carefull with it!

Im grumpy too now! Im gunna go buy chocolate and it is going to be all his fault that im staying fat

xx

 

[Laura2919]

Dont give it to him Serves him right. If his new GF told him to then more fool him because no matter what his child should come first. I would expect that at the very least from him! Hey ho.. Dont worry too much! Tell your friend to say I think maybe you should message her on facebook! Afterall you have a child together, You must remember her name lol!

 

[lou_w34]

Heehee he is blocked on FB, when he was on it he used to 'spy' and text me asking who all my male friends were who messaged me... not too mention i dont want him stealing LO's pics when he cant even be bothered to see her.

Still doesnt stop him asking his friends though!

Why do they make things so hard and complicated!!!!????

xxx

 

[suzanne108]

Hmmmmmm just keep saying you haven't changed it and try to not let him have it without actually saying "you're not having it" just so it can't be used against you at any point!!

Annoying though. Idiot! Prob wants to make out to your friend that he's making an effort, which is why he didn't ask his mates??! xx

 

[scottishgal89]

agree with laura and sweetlullaby, thats his problem, he shouldnt have done it in heat of the moment if he was then gonna change his mind.
i deleted my ex's num out of my phone but i've put it and his families in an old phone incase i do ever need to contact him which i doubt will ever happen but never know

 

[lou_w34]

Seriously, do i never listen lol

I went around a friends, and she said that if it ever went to court, or in the future he could turn around and say he asked for my number and i wouldnt give it to him, and make it look badly on me, so i text him asking him why he deleated my number.... he replied with 'whos this?' So i said id have thought that was obvious since you have been asking my friends for my number, he replied with........ 'K'

I mean seriously....K?? Is that it??
You havent spoke to me in nearly 6 weeks and you dont even ask me how LO is, Or if she needs anything, you dont even ask to see her!!!

I should have taken all your advice, but at least my conscience is clear and i can say i have done everything!

xxx

 

[scottishgal89]

at least your conscience is clear but what a twat he sounds!!!
that couldnt be used against you. his problem for deleting it. the police told me to change my number completely lol

 

[purpledahlia]

Lou just ignore him, hes a dickwad

 

[lou_w34]

Oh he so is!!

Another friend just left me a message on FB saying to call her urgently, i did, apparently he messaged her for my number too... but not only that his gf did too telling my friend not to give fob my number!!!!!
She must have been hacking into his fb and saw his messages to my friends lol

Just goes to prove i was right all along! He is putting his gf first and not seeing lo because of her!

I can now officially say i am done with him! LOSER!

I feel free now lol

xxx

 

[scottishgal89]

what an arse

 

[suzanne108]

OMG!

To be honest I think you did the right thing by giving him your number.....but "K" ugh how annoying.

FOB text me the other day asking how "his little girl" was...so I replied then asked if he would still be here on saturday, my reply was "ye"......Lol not even worth a proper reply!

 

[lou_w34]

Urrgggghhh i hate texts like that!!!! I mean why even bother????

xx

 

[teal]

I agree - he is a loser. Can't believe he's putting his new gf before his daughter.

"K" in a text would have really annoyed me aswell!

 

[sweetlullaby]

What an arse!! I don't even get text messages