Ok first things first, I'm not looking for the sympathy vote here; I genuinley need some ideas or perhaps is anyone else in same situation as me? Me and my hubby and my 13 week old baby live together. We are not POOR as such........ but we can only just afford food and baby stuff (nappies, formula etc) but am dreading this year for xmas as I litally have no spare money to buy anyone anything. I don't feel to bad for KLO as she will only just be over 4 months old and not understand. I feel bad this is my first xmas with baby and it's ruined by the fact I don't even know if we can afford a tree! Does anyone have any ideas on what I could get people for xmas presents? Including my hubby who isn't expecting anything from me...Or is anyone else in the same boat? What are you doing? Thanks x ps -I am not entiled to any benefits other than child benefit - they say my husband earns "too much"... but we barely get by on it cos of all the debt we have and debt is mounting up. Getting a part time job isn't an option for me at the mo' as I am awaiting quite serious surgery to repair the 4th degree tear that never healed properley from the birth of my baby.