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How did FOB react to your pregnancy?
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mamashakesit
Mom to Harleigh
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He was the model boyfriend/father for about 15 days after we found out. Then I discovered he was dating another woman - and the two of them proceeded to harass me throughout my entire pregnancy and beyond. He lied, went bar hopping on his motorcycle all summer, drank heavily while I worked my ass off up until the day the baby was born. It was swell.
She is nearly 6 months old and several states away from him and he has called 3 times in the last 3 weeks. He has never given me a cent for anything for his child. Although he did get a job and he got away from the bar bimbo, I've seen nothing in his interest or character that convinces me he cares one bit.
I think I'm still bitter...
She is nearly 6 months old and several states away from him and he has called 3 times in the last 3 weeks. He has never given me a cent for anything for his child. Although he did get a job and he got away from the bar bimbo, I've seen nothing in his interest or character that convinces me he cares one bit.
I think I'm still bitter...
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FOB was really happy. Then he started working late; I'm almost certain he was seeig someone. He then went on at me to have an A. He then said he'd go to court to make me have an A. After that, he gave up, got excited about the pregnancy, dumped me and shagged about, impregnating a girl, who sadly had a MC.
He's a dick.
He's a dick.
112110
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He did all those things (cheat, drugs, drink, etc) but that was nothing out of the ordinary 
But the REALLY stupid thing he did was this:
Firstly he pushed abortion, then he gave me this line
"You probably aren't pregnant, you're already 2 months I'm pretty sure we'd be able to tell by now. You probably just were so worried about it and thinking that you were that your body fooled the tests into positives."
This is 100% true.
My reaction..
WHAT in the hell are you talking about!?!?!?
But the REALLY stupid thing he did was this:
Firstly he pushed abortion, then he gave me this line
"You probably aren't pregnant, you're already 2 months I'm pretty sure we'd be able to tell by now. You probably just were so worried about it and thinking that you were that your body fooled the tests into positives."
This is 100% true.
My reaction..
WHAT in the hell are you talking about!?!?!?
he said he saw it somewhere on the internet
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I think my body's fooled me into thinking I have a baby. No joke. Made me think I gave birth and everything
Seeeeeeee, he's right 
lal
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Mine said he would support me whatever I decided to do. Then when I did not decide to have an A, he slept with a bunch of girls (one who emailed me about it), and started dating a stripper 16 years younger than him, also ignoring me and the pregnancy for the last, oh, 6 months of it. He now is there as far as the baby, which is good, but I cannot see him/talk to him/go to sleep at night without thinking about what he put me through while I carried his child. That is what I will always remember about being pregnant. Also even though he visits our son almost daily, he still is out barhopping & hitting on young girls quite regularly. And sending them text pictures of our child. So no, he did not change.
hancake100
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FOB was really to happy when I told him, he begged me to get an abortion but I told him that wasnt going to happend and he could either be with me or walk away. After a week he came to me and said he wanted to be invloved and do it together, he was there through everything, scans and labour etc.... the 1st 2weeks she was born he was brilliant but then it all hit rock bottom from there, he said he wasnt wanting this family life got all nasty with me and said the grass was greener on the other side. He treated me like pure cr$p but I stuck by him because I loved him and didnt want him to leave. But he was always walking in and out of mine and Ellies life. He always says I didnt even want you to have Ellie in the first place and ive never loved you etc..... We were together for just over 5years aswell. HIS LOSS!!!!
