How did u get over an ex?

[elly460]

Hey ladies!

Me and OH broke up, my choice, because he constantly lies, big lies, little lies, you name it. And he always put his friends and partying before me. Anywho, it's still all very raw and i felt like i was doing the right thing by breaking it off and getting my own apartment.. But now I feel so empty, like something is missing. And I'm definitley not lonely, I'm usually with family or friends, and have no problem meeting other guys.
I just feel so let down and hurt, and i know I shouldn't be with him, but I honestly feel like he could have been my husband and child's Father. I've been through one other break up, but never felt quite as passionate about someone like this before... Sorry, more of a rant.
Should I just keep trying to make it better or just completely cut him off so I can heal.. I think I know the answer but how do you make the decision to never see this person again? (I don't think we could be friends)

Thanks for reading

 

[angels330]

*hugs* hi there.its never an easy thing to get over an ex, especially ones whom you felt so right with. i was like that with my babys father, we broke up and i was so confused for a long long time about my feelings for him. at the end of the day, you say this man lies to you and you are not the first person in his life, it seems to me that you felt that you didnt want to be with him, and even though you feel like you made a mistake, you mustv felt deep down that he wasnt the one for you as youd still be together. i think it just takes time for the heart to heal, and you just gotta go with your gut feeling that made you break up in the first place. hopeit helps some all the best x