i will tell you my friends story we was still in school she was only 14 and she came to school in a pickle i knew instantly what she was about to tell me. when she told me i was shocked but even more shocked by her saying ohh can you tell my dad and i was like omg noooo, i will come home and tell him with you, so after school off we trot and before i even thought about her saying it she said dad im pregnant he just went green and stormed off without a word, 5 days later still not a word on the 6th day after school we went to her house and on the table, was a little baby gro grandads little pudding on the front with a note, michelle, i dont agree with what you done but it's done, your my baby and it's hard but hey i'll get over it, well we just sat and cryed buckets both of us her sons now 10 and shes a brilliant mommy and he a brilliant grandad so best of luck i know you be feeling like you let them down but like michelle they do come round sorry about the essay ha ha xxxxxx