How did you do it and what where the reactions?
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Well. I had sexytime on my 19th birthday, and it was the day i concieved, unintentionally though lol.
I wasnt with my OH at the time, we had gone on a little break but were still seeing each other regully (still loved one another a fair bit lol) and we got back together a month or so after we found out.
I told my mum the same day i found out. She instantly told me to book an abortion. I totally wasnt exspecting this, and so i did :/ even though i didnt know what i wanted.
I left it a few weeks before i told my dad. He said, and these are his actual words "That means i have to go and buy a really big teddy bear now".. in other words, he was over the moon about it, and wanted me to keep it..
but i told him i didnt know what i was doing yet. me and OH had been going through pros and cons for ages.
It got to the day where i was meant to go and get it terminated, i was around 11weeks.
i got into the ward. Looked at all the other girls around me (through my masses of tears) and said to myself.. how can so many people take so many lives in one day???..
i walked out and told OH to take me home.. we did decide to rebook when we got home.. but i said to myself no you know damn well that isnt what you want. and a few days later. (after some serious councelling too) i managed to tell my OH i wanted to keep it and start a future together. his words were pretty much wer "okayy...I love you for telling me the truth finally.. " he must have known that i wanted to keep it.
My mum wasnt happy but she respected my decision. My dad was over the moon.
Telling his mum on the other hand was whole other story (shes not a stable woman lets put it that way) and she hated me for ages but tbh i hate her just as much xD
and now everybody is looking forward to it
i know i went on abit.. but its part of it i guess XD
I wasnt with my OH at the time, we had gone on a little break but were still seeing each other regully (still loved one another a fair bit lol) and we got back together a month or so after we found out.
I told my mum the same day i found out. She instantly told me to book an abortion. I totally wasnt exspecting this, and so i did :/ even though i didnt know what i wanted.
I left it a few weeks before i told my dad. He said, and these are his actual words "That means i have to go and buy a really big teddy bear now".. in other words, he was over the moon about it, and wanted me to keep it..
but i told him i didnt know what i was doing yet. me and OH had been going through pros and cons for ages.
It got to the day where i was meant to go and get it terminated, i was around 11weeks.
i got into the ward. Looked at all the other girls around me (through my masses of tears) and said to myself.. how can so many people take so many lives in one day???..
i walked out and told OH to take me home.. we did decide to rebook when we got home.. but i said to myself no you know damn well that isnt what you want. and a few days later. (after some serious councelling too) i managed to tell my OH i wanted to keep it and start a future together. his words were pretty much wer "okayy...I love you for telling me the truth finally.. " he must have known that i wanted to keep it.
My mum wasnt happy but she respected my decision. My dad was over the moon.
Telling his mum on the other hand was whole other story (shes not a stable woman lets put it that way) and she hated me for ages but tbh i hate her just as much xD
and now everybody is looking forward to it
i know i went on abit.. but its part of it i guess XD
