How do I cope

[Lawa]

Well I am 9+4 today ladies the furthest I have ever got. I have a scan tomorrow my 7th scan things are starting to seem real. Baby is measuring exactly normal with a hb of164 and everything look great. So why am I hating every moment of ot?
I have no major symptoms I constantly feel something is going to go wrong why can't I just enjoy this?

 

[Round2]

I'm sorry you're feeling this way. It's complete crap....the majority of women in the world get to enjoy having a miracle growing in their body. They have no idea how lucky the are to be able to enjoy this time.

After all you've been through, it's only natural to feel this way. But I'm sure the fear will lessen soon. After you get through the first tri you should be able to relax a bit.

Good luck for you scan tomorrow. Can't wait to see yoru happy news.

 

[hb1]

good luck for your scan = am sure you will feel more confident as time goes on - you'll still worry but as you get further and further on from your mc point you may well let the excitement in.

hx

 

[Lawa]

Thanks ladies I think some of the fear has come as e have told a few people like 4 over the holidays and that really made it seem real compared to just me and the OH I have also told work who are arranging a risk assessment and I am like you silly girl you are only 10 weeks!

 

[fluffyblue]

Its natural and believe you me by 12 weeks with all the scans you will feel fed up of them. I had a meltdown about 10 weeks because I knew too much and didnt really wanna know exact sizes etc etc so I cancelled all further scans till 16 weeks and the relief was great .

Well done hun to get this far xxx

 

[Lawa]

Well ladies I had my scan today at 9+6 and baby was jumping like a little frog! They moved my dates forward to 10+2 as well!

And as I had to wait two weeks untill my 12 week scan they are going to re scan me next friday the 14th at 11 weeks to put my mind at rest!

 

[Smiler79]

Thats fantastic news Lawa Really happy for you. Keeping my fingers crossed for your next scan xxxxxxxxx

 

[hb1]

fab news!!!

hx

 

[debgreasby]

So happy for you hunni xxx

 

[babywanted]

Yay!! for your great scan results!!

 

[Round2]

Congrats! That's fabulous news!!

 

[cgweegee]

Congratulations