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Hi all, I'm not sure if I should post this here but have no idea where to turn.
My SIL is 30 weeks pregnant and just found out today she is having another boy (her son is 12 yrs old). Long story short, she got pregnant from a one night stand, doesn't speak to the father of this baby, and has spent her entire pregnancy convincing herself she's having a girl to the point where if anyone mentioned the possibility of a boy she would flip out and correct you saying no, it's a girl. She's been crocheting girl colored blankets, her Pinterest page is full of baby girl stuff, etc.
I found out tonight through my in-laws that my SIL now wants absolutely nothing to do with this baby boy, to the point of now giving him up for adoption or finding ways to terminate this late. She has been lashing out at my MIL and the rest of my husband's family.
Me and my other SIL have her entire baby shower planned in less than 3 weeks, a lot of people have bought off her registries including myself!
I have no idea what to do or say. I'm speechless.
I had slight GD when I found out I'm having another girl, but had no idea her form of GD was even possible.
Help???? Any articles or references I can read and maybe send to her out of desperation?
My SIL is 30 weeks pregnant and just found out today she is having another boy (her son is 12 yrs old). Long story short, she got pregnant from a one night stand, doesn't speak to the father of this baby, and has spent her entire pregnancy convincing herself she's having a girl to the point where if anyone mentioned the possibility of a boy she would flip out and correct you saying no, it's a girl. She's been crocheting girl colored blankets, her Pinterest page is full of baby girl stuff, etc.
I found out tonight through my in-laws that my SIL now wants absolutely nothing to do with this baby boy, to the point of now giving him up for adoption or finding ways to terminate this late. She has been lashing out at my MIL and the rest of my husband's family.
Me and my other SIL have her entire baby shower planned in less than 3 weeks, a lot of people have bought off her registries including myself!
I have no idea what to do or say. I'm speechless.
I had slight GD when I found out I'm having another girl, but had no idea her form of GD was even possible.
Help???? Any articles or references I can read and maybe send to her out of desperation?