How do i tell him

[Babi-shelly]

Hi i'm 15 and have just found out i am pregnant the problem is my bf has jsut gone to see his dad for a month in America so i haven't had the chance to tell him. i don't know if i should tell him over the phone or wait for him to home.

 

[leedsforever]

oooh tricky one....!!!
I understand that you dont want to worry your bf whilst he is a way but also you need him to know to be able to support you at this time!!
Do you know how far gone you could be??? Would it be something your bf would be happy about?!?
Do you know yourself how you feel about it??

Welcome to B&B hun!!!

 

[Babi-shelly]

I'm, about 2 months gone and we have talked about kids but have always said that we wanted to wait until we were older and honestly at the moment i am very scared.

 

[miel]

hello ...
i think you may want to tell him as soon as you can... you may want to first call him and let him know you wish to speak with him regarding a important matter and if he could find a place or a moment where you could call him back or he could call you back as you want to talk with him as long as you need without being interrupted.
good luck sweetie

 

[leedsforever]

Ar hun... Im sure you are!! I cannot imagine being your age and in your situation!!!
How about your parents?? have you spoke to them?!
Maybe book in with your gp first before phoning your bf!!!

 

[Babi-shelly]

I haven't really had the chance to speak to them. My dad works away and my mum comes home from work after i have gone to bed so we don't really get much time to talk.

 

[leedsforever]

i strongly think you should make time to talk hun....
you shouldnt be going through this on your own!!!
Do you feel in a comfortable position to phone your boyfriend and tell him?!? Have you been together long??
xx

 

[Babi-shelly]

We have been together for about 3 years and have always taked of our future together but lately things have been a funny and he has been spening alot of time with his dad and none of his time in England. We talk on the phone nearly every night but i just don't know how to tell him over the phone.

 

[leedsforever]

theres not many ways to tell him to be fair...
you just have to be honest and discuss where you want to go from here....
keep us informed!!

 

[Babi-shelly]

Just my luck the one time i manage to get the courgae to tell him and he isn't picking up

 

[xarlenex]

How do you think he's going to react to this?
Because if its not too good then maybe you should wait till you can see him face to face. But yous have been together quite a while, you will know him better, which way would he prefer? He must miss out on a lot of school if hes always in america with his dad x

 

[leedsforever]

hi hun....

just wondering how everything went??