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maddiwatts19
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i know that Riley's only nearly 2 weeks old, and that everyone in the family wants to see him and all that excitement of a new baby etc, but i'm really getting fed up of having atleast one relative here everyday!
me and Rob just want the chance to learn to be parents by ourselves and having someone here everyday makes me feel like i cant be a mother! when people are here and he needs feeding/changing/putting to sleep everyones like "can i do it?" it is nice to have some help but he's 2 weeks old and me and Rob havent yet had one day just us three.
i really do appriciate the help, so i dont want to bluntly tell them to piss off. but i just cant cope anymore. its not even like they phone and ask to come over, they just turn up on the doorstep!! sometimes i dont see my family that much, but i've seen them more in the last 2 weeks than i have in the last 2 years!!!
i just want to ask them to but out without offending anyone because there probably will come a time when i need their help... its so hard
me and Rob just want the chance to learn to be parents by ourselves and having someone here everyday makes me feel like i cant be a mother! when people are here and he needs feeding/changing/putting to sleep everyones like "can i do it?" it is nice to have some help but he's 2 weeks old and me and Rob havent yet had one day just us three.
i really do appriciate the help, so i dont want to bluntly tell them to piss off. but i just cant cope anymore. its not even like they phone and ask to come over, they just turn up on the doorstep!! sometimes i dont see my family that much, but i've seen them more in the last 2 weeks than i have in the last 2 years!!!
i just want to ask them to but out without offending anyone because there probably will come a time when i need their help... its so hard