How do you keep from obsessing...

[BritD]

over every tiny little thing? I woke up today (pregnant one year after m/c) and one boob hurt more than the other so I spent the morning scouring the internet before I realized I was acting like a crazy person and that since I'm still nauseated and my boobs are sore and I JUST got a positive this morning, probably there's nothing wrong. I worry that my overstressing is actually going to cause another m/c, but I don't know how to stop.

 

[BeautifulD]

I feel your pain! I'm constantly obsessing over how I feel and poking my boobs. To be honest I always have one that hurts more than the other sending

 

[annalee2003]

I don't, haha.

My left boob hurt way more than my right a couple of days ago, and I found myself searching the internet just like you, looking for answers. Finally I convinced myself that I was being stupid after I couldn't really come up with a good answer for it.

I still catch myself checking my boobs to see if they're still sore, or wondering why I haven't really been that nauseous, or checking the toilet paper for discoloration/blood every single time I got pee. It's nerve-wrecking sometimes!

The only thing that keeps my mind off of worrying is distracting myself with work or hanging out with friends.

 

[BritD]

I do the exact same thing with the toilet paper! It makes me feel so much less crazy that other people are doing these things too. I poke my boobs and then I'll get them when they're really sore and quickly regret that action. Today I found myself spazzing because I got really mad at my husband and I was worried that I was too stressed for that 5 minutes. :/

 

[threemakefive]

You know....I'm nuts too hahah but I have found that comparing it to my mmc is helping...like way sick this time and none last time....sore boobs none last time...less cramps....try comparing for he better it seems to help

 

[BeautifulD]

Ugh toilet paper is my nightmare at the moment, especially if I have a little more cm my heary actually stops I swear!

 

[jaggers]

My right boob always hurts tons more than left. I have no idea how not to be obsessed. I'm thinking just try to enjoy it but I know in the back of your mind there's a 'what if'... I would guess the best answer I can give is give yourself a certain amount of time daily to 'obsess' like to google things.
You're going to poke your boobs and check your TP.
I dunno why but you are. My boobs were sore for about 3-4 days before my BFP and I kept squishing them. lol!

 

[Angel17]

Tell me all about tissue I have some in my underwear and check it every 10 mins when I feel like I am leaking! Every little poke, twinge cramp my heart stops. I had an early miscarriage but was so naive first time and happy when I found out. Now am trying to relax but it is hard. Very hard. Praying for a sticky and healthy 9 months for everyone!