The poll has shifted! Now about 2/3 saying Nay-Oh-Mee, which makes me feel a bit happier that there might not be quite as much name 'correcting' to go as I thought. Just need to get her cousins to get her name right and we'll be on to something. (Agree it is up to the individual though, and don't mean any offence to any Nye-Oh-Mees!)