Everyone tells us, "just relax; it'll happen when you stop trying." Well, yeah. That doesn't happen. I'd love to get a tip from Mother Mary on the whole immaculate conception thing, but until then, we chart, we time, we temp, we try. And we have to stay positive, because remember: if we stress, our bodies suddenly become barren infertile wastelands. *gasp!* How do you stay positive and keep yourself with a low level of stress?