Same here, my $300 a month insurance won't cover ANYTHING. I wish I didn't have to have the stupid insurance because I have never even used it for the past 4 years I have had it, but if I do become pregnant I would be screwed without it. So for the past 4 years I have basically paid $14,000 for insurance that I have never been able to use...what a sad life.
Everything has come out of our pocket, SA, twice monthly ultrasounds, fertility medication, IUI's etc etc etc. During a typical month we spend between $700 if we don't do the IUI's and nearly $1100 if we do the IUI's. My husband and I are far from being rich/well off, so it is the biggest struggle paying for something that deems pointless every month when it fails.
One month I about lost it when I had a chemical/ early mc, and my insurance denied coverage for anything relating to the early mc, because it was a "product of fertility treatments", although if I were to become pregnant through the treatments the pregnancy would be covered. Had to take nearly $2500 out of savings to pay for all of the blood work ultrasounds etc.
The only way we can pay for this bs is because my husband works 75 hours a week, and I work 80. I work a management position from 10 am to 10 pm 6 days a week and then Sunday is my "day off", I work 11 am to 7pm. I litterally have no life anymore, I have missed countless family gatherings etc etc in order to "pay" for my future that isn't even guaranteed. I feel as though I have to give up my life now in order to have one in the future.
Another thing I have done is start a "business", it's not really a business but I order things I can find on ebay and sell them to people on craigslist etc. Small things like jewelry, only make a couple dollars per sale but all the profit goes into a little jar and I am saving for IVF. My husband and I are building a house and it will be ready mid summer. I told him I don't care what it takes but if I am not pregnant by the time we move into the house I will be having IVF by the time the year ends.
Best of luck to you, sorry this reply is kind of long, but the cost of infertility treatments really gets my blood boiling. Best of luck to you in financing this journey.