How does your OH 'take care of themselves'?

[GreyGirl]

He doesn't. We do stuff together or not at all.

 

[Karenfla36]

mine is afraid and doesn't want me to strain. so he has "taken care of himself". so far. i just had my 20 week scan so i feel more comfy trying again. it has been since FEBRUARY!!! but i do not feel soo bad only because he has been afraid, so it is not just me staying away.

 

[Sparklesx]

I hate the thought of my partner watching porn especially since I am totally up for dtd! All the way through this pregnancy my sex drive has took a all time high! Is my partner who doesnt want it, he said he feels it's weird coz he knows his daughter's in there haha' it made him worse when we were told she was engaged, he refused point blank then. Although a few nights back I was crying proper bad saying I wanted to try everything to get tgis baby out (I'm 39+3 days) coz im beginning struggle with sleep, heartburn, nightmares blah blah. I went to bed and he came up not long after and we dtd although he didnt touch my stomach once, he still said it felt strange haha. Men are strange...,, sorry for long essay haha x

 

[sojourn]

Oh the poor husbands.
I'm still quite early, but we kind of have a routine when he wants it and I don't. (He's a morning person and I usually just want to strangle whoever woke me up). We have an ongoing joke about "half-hearted hand jobs". Sometimes I'll join him in the shower and provide some manual stimulation and a good visual. If it's during my period or I have cramps or something I'll go the oral route.

In EXTREME circumstances he'll take care of himself in the shower. I tease him about his "suspiciously long showers"

I'm still early on, but have felt like GARBAGE. So we'll see if I can keep up my oral/manual routine as much as possible. If not, I'll make sure to save money for the water bill!

 

[PuddlePuppy]

He does, mind you he has been away so much so have I dam those hormones