charlotteb24
Noah & William's Mummy
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My step son is 7 years old and his recent visit to us at half term just gone was a very anti-social one. Now we live in a bigger house we currently have a spare bedroom which i set his ready bed up in for him and his lego that he can't play with around his 21 month old brother who literally tries to eat it!
So as usual he brings his nintendo DS down and plays on it for hours at a time. I'm not comfortable with the sheer amount of time he is willing to sit alone upstairs in the room playing on his own and playing on his DS. On one day he was on it around 4+ hours and at stupid times like he'd just got up and was still in his PJ's and before breakfast he was on the DS. To make a point i didn't give him breakfast until he put it down an hour and a half later!
I mentioned his lack of social interaction to his mum to see if its the norm at home and she said that hes always in his room or on the computer or watching TV and clearly shes happy with that.
Me as a parent i'm not happy with that at all, his 21 month old brother was constatly at the bottom of the stairs calling for him to come down and he ignored it. He ignores you calling him down, he even ignores cues to go to the toilet and end up with poo in his underware which we thought we had stopped 2 visits ago.
I think we need to start limiting his DS and TV usage and make him interact with us. We see him for 5/7 days every 3 ish months as he lives up north and so we want to be able to actually see him!
How long would you allow a 7 year old per day to watch tv, play alone, play on a games console etc?
So as usual he brings his nintendo DS down and plays on it for hours at a time. I'm not comfortable with the sheer amount of time he is willing to sit alone upstairs in the room playing on his own and playing on his DS. On one day he was on it around 4+ hours and at stupid times like he'd just got up and was still in his PJ's and before breakfast he was on the DS. To make a point i didn't give him breakfast until he put it down an hour and a half later!
I mentioned his lack of social interaction to his mum to see if its the norm at home and she said that hes always in his room or on the computer or watching TV and clearly shes happy with that.
Me as a parent i'm not happy with that at all, his 21 month old brother was constatly at the bottom of the stairs calling for him to come down and he ignored it. He ignores you calling him down, he even ignores cues to go to the toilet and end up with poo in his underware which we thought we had stopped 2 visits ago.
I think we need to start limiting his DS and TV usage and make him interact with us. We see him for 5/7 days every 3 ish months as he lives up north and so we want to be able to actually see him!
How long would you allow a 7 year old per day to watch tv, play alone, play on a games console etc?