emyandpotato
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Wasn't sure whether to post this here on in Home Birthing but thought I'd get more responses here!
With LO I was in slow labour for three to four days (lost track, but he was born on the 11th, and I know I was in labour at my sister's birthday meal on the 8th, and the night before that). He has a number of problems, a lot of which he's still being testing for a cause. My mum has said on quite a few occasions that some of his issues may be due in part to the very long birth, and she's even suggested slight/mild (I'm sorry, I don't know the correct term) cerebral palsy, which I doubt, but it's still a possibility. Obviously I wouldn't want to have caused LO any problems by not going in to hospital sooner, but I have no idea if I did cause him these problems.
I called the hospital a couple of times but because contractions went from every few minutes to every ten and back and forth for a few days, they didn't let me come in. I managed fine at home, and I didn't feel like anything was wrong, I was just tired and in pain. I didn't get checked out so obviously no idea at what point from the contractions started would have been considered active labour. I was ready to push when I finally had appropriate contractions for them to let me in.
This time I'm planning a home birth. The thought of another long labour doesn't bother me. The only thing I'm worried about is 1) is it safe to labour for so long? and 2) will they make me transfer to a hospital after a certain length of time? If so, after how long?
With LO I was in slow labour for three to four days (lost track, but he was born on the 11th, and I know I was in labour at my sister's birthday meal on the 8th, and the night before that). He has a number of problems, a lot of which he's still being testing for a cause. My mum has said on quite a few occasions that some of his issues may be due in part to the very long birth, and she's even suggested slight/mild (I'm sorry, I don't know the correct term) cerebral palsy, which I doubt, but it's still a possibility. Obviously I wouldn't want to have caused LO any problems by not going in to hospital sooner, but I have no idea if I did cause him these problems.
I called the hospital a couple of times but because contractions went from every few minutes to every ten and back and forth for a few days, they didn't let me come in. I managed fine at home, and I didn't feel like anything was wrong, I was just tired and in pain. I didn't get checked out so obviously no idea at what point from the contractions started would have been considered active labour. I was ready to push when I finally had appropriate contractions for them to let me in.
This time I'm planning a home birth. The thought of another long labour doesn't bother me. The only thing I'm worried about is 1) is it safe to labour for so long? and 2) will they make me transfer to a hospital after a certain length of time? If so, after how long?