How many more?

[logie68]

I don't know why i am even writing anymore. I have now had 7 miscarriages and I don't think i can cope anymore.
I am taking aspirin and a double dose of folic acid every day. I don't know when i want to start trying again. I now hate being pregnant because i then stop going to the toilet for fear of what i will find and i feel so fragile I just want to lie down for 40 weeks. Will it ever end? Will i ever have another baby? I am now 35 and time is running out.

 

[misstrouble]

Aww Hun I really do not know what to say to you. I can not begin to imagine what you are going through. I have only had 1 m/c and that was hard enough. I do understand how you are scared to become pregnant again. Only you will know when the time is right and I am sure it will happen for you soon. I am going to keep everything crossed for you. Take care of yourself hun.x

 

[Dizzy321]

hi hope you dont mind me butting into your thread but i would just like to tell you that my auntie who is 37 has just had a healthy baby boy after years and years of trying and i think 6 miscarrages and two stillborns, she had a cervical stitch placed. hope this gives you some hope, i wish you all the best x

 

[JASMAK]

I am so sorry sweetie. I wish there was some answers. I have had three, and I am starting to feel like that too. Will it EVER happen? If only we could look into the future and know what it holds for us. I want to tell you to not give up, and that it will one day happen...because I so desperately need to believe that too. But, at the same time, emotionally, it is such a rollercoaster, even, like you said, when you get pregnant-It is not "yay I have a BFP", "it's Oh God, I have a BFP, how can I keep this baby in me?". You just need to find the strength within you, somewhere.

 

[Rumpskin]

I am so very sorry for your losses darling. I cannot imagine the emotions and sadness that you are going through.

I take it after so many miscarriages, that you have been referred for tests? If so, have they found out why?

This is my second miscarriage this year and I am having blood tests on Tuesday and then will be referred to a gyno.

My thoughts are with you xxx

 

[honey08]

im so sry hun ,how awful for u,words cant explain how sry i am x

 

[wantababybump]

So sorry for your losses. Ive gone through 2 m/c and I cant imagine what you are going through with 7 xx

 

[moomoo]

Hey hun i'd just like to say that my aunty caroline...had many m/c and a stilborn at 8 months (Jordan would be 15 if he was still alive) and she now has a beatiful girl. It will happen for you hun, i promise xx

 

[dizzy65]

awe

 

[Drazic<3]

I cant even imagine how painful this must be for you.
I know you feel that time is running out but maybe you need a break? to take some time for you, to look after yourself. I dont mean ages, maybe just a month. Just to build up some strength to try again

 

[JLS]

i'm so sorry for ur losses. thinking of you xx

 

[morayo]

sorry love, there's nothing i can say to make ur dear ones come back but i do feel so sad . ive had one and it was tarumatic dnt even think i can imagine how u are feeling. take heart hun, u will have a healthy bun some day and dnt worry about ur age, just stay healthy its all work out love!

 

[keldac]

I have had 3 miscariages then my little girl died suddenly when she was 6 weeks old. I know the utter despair you feel at the moment. However - I did go on to have 2 healthy children after that and I am expecting again.
I still panic all the time and check for bleeding even though I am over half way there now.
I was put on progesterone pessaries and HCG injections to prevent miscarriage and it worked for me xxx

 

[logie68]

thanks guys for all your emails. i just feel so desolate. i have been to a psychic believe it or not. My friend had gone a few weeks before me and was asked if she knew anyone who had just had a miscarriage and told her that she sees a boy and girl in front of them. I thought she must be talking about me so i went (she didn't know who my friend was) and told me the exact same thing! I keep holding onto that thought. It really annoys me when everyone says, at least you have one already. Does that deny me the right to want another?!! I am a triplet and i am hoping now that i have twins or triplets because i feel i deserve them! i am fit and healthy, don't smoke or drink and have a good diet. It bugs me that some women smoke all through their pregnancy - they should not be allowed children when they are choking the life they are growing. I am getting too cynical now for this. Do you think I am now too old at 35?

 

[keldac]

No you are not too old hun! 35 is quite young now - I know people having their 1st at 40!
Have you had any more tests or been put on medication to prevent miscarriage?

 

[logie68]

I've had all the tests, even ultrasounds on my womb. I am now on aspirin every day. Hopefully it will make a difference although i had a miscarriage after i had been on it for only 1 month. It was a wee slip. I should have waited 3 months. We'll try again in February.

 

[colsy]

I don't know what else to say, but I felt I should offer some hugs at the very least. I just hope that one day will be YOUR day ... soon.

XX

 

[leeanne]

I am so sorry.

 

[Booksmart]

I am so sorry for your losses. 35 is not too old, I have known several women who have had babies well into their fourties. You have been blessed with one child, I hope you will be blessed again.

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I can't imagine the pain.