How many times does it have to happen

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I found out i lost my 4th pregnancy today, i was 10 weeks but baby died at 7weeks.
im devastated and im going to opt for a d/c to get it over and done with iv got have tests done on my blood and genes.
im 20 years old and lost 4 in 18months i seriouslt upset god in my previous life coz i never do anything wrong but iv lost 4!!!

im just numb
 
Oh hun I don't know what to say? I've only lost my 1st can't begin to imagine what it would feel like to lose 4 in 18mths. I will keep my fingers crosse that they can find out why this keeps happening to you quickly and something can be done to prevent it happening again. My thoughts are with you and sending you loads of :hugs::hugs::hug::hugs::hugs: If you need us we are here for you.
 
I am sorry for your loss.

I seriously don't know how you could take that heartbreak all those times.
I feel for you.
 
aww i am sorry to hear +that... Hope everything is well with u *hugs* it is hard loosing a baby...
 
So sorry for your losses hun, :hugs: hopefully they can find out why this has happened to you & do something to prevent you having to go through this pain again xx
 
:hugs: I'm so sorry to hear your news sweetheart. I know that nothing I could ever say could begin to make you feel any better, but I'm here for you if you'd like to talk. I've lost 3 in 3 years and it hurts like hell, so I do understand how devastating it is, but I'm not going to say that I know how you feel, - because quite frankly I don't think anyone ever knows how someone feels.

I'm thinking of you huni. :hugs:
 
I found out i lost my 4th pregnancy today, i was 10 weeks but baby died at 7weeks.
im devastated and im going to opt for a d/c to get it over and done with iv got have tests done on my blood and genes.
im 20 years old and lost 4 in 18months i seriouslt upset god in my previous life coz i never do anything wrong but iv lost 4!!!

im just numb

I lost my first at 18.. My 2nd and 3rd at 21 and last year my 4th.. Every time it happened it made me scared to even get pg again it made me feel bad cause i couldnt do what women are made to do and all the women i knew could do it.. No im just ttc and doing everything possible to keep my progesterone levels good.. I dont even kno if that was the only real reason i kept mc but i feel so desperate to fix this thing that im trying everything.. I know how hard and frustrating it is.. But many women here have been or are going through it and we are here for u.. If u need anything im here.
 
So sorry for your losses. No words can make anything better for you right now, but sending you lots of :hug: and any support I can.
xxxx
 
Hi Tracie - thank you for replying to my post and I'm so sorry to hear what has happened. Are you getting the right medical support? Will the hospital give you some answers (if that's what you need)?
I am scheduled for a D&C Tuesday (this is my first baby, first mc), have no idea what to expect but am frightened about everything with so many questions. I can only imagine that you feel the same, magnified.
Whilt it's prob a stupid thing to say, I really hope that you begin to recover gradually and that you know how many lovely people are here who will be able to support you.
Wishing you all the best xxxxx
 

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