At the moment we have just decided to change from TTC#1 to WTT for #1 because I assumed I would have been preggers by now. I was earning an average wage before but decided on a career change which meant I needed to to back to uni full time for a year. My husband was more than happy to provide for us and the plan was for me to get pregnant in the 1st quarter of this year, then just stay at home to have the baby and go back to work when I am ready. OH earns £70k at the mo.
So to cut the long story short, I have extremely irregular periods, so I saw my doctor, had some tests done, still not diagnosis, now I have been referred to the gynae. After graduating I started looking for work since I was not getting pregnant. It's so har to get a good job these days, so I decided to start looking for internships with specific companies that I wanted to work for, and I finally just secured one to start this month and last for 5months, then they will offer me a perm role after, providing we are both happy.
So, after much thought, we have decided to WTT for 6 months (mar/apr2012).
I think I have been given a great opportunity and want to make the best of, would not be great if I got pregnant in the middle of the internship, also I would not be entitled to any SMP. So, no income for me for the next 5months, but hopefully I will be offered around £25k after, so we will have a joint income of £95k to start saving for the baby, and by the time I have the baby, I will be entitled to at least SMP.
So that's the new plan now.
At the moment my husband saves around £800 each month, we are renting in London, so we have a very high cost of living, also my husband bought me a new car as a graduation gift and we usually travel about twice a year. I know we will have to make some sacrifices to our lifestyle once we start trying to have a baby.