My post on photography: https://champagneandcrumpets.tumblr...is-is-a-decision-that-troubles-me-quite-a-bit
We're not having one
But I'm crossing my fingers the photos will be lovely all the same!
Just read your post and yeah that's pretty much the reasons why I'm considering an alternative to a professional photographer.
I do have a couple of friends and a cousin who do Art at uni and do ameatur photography as a bit of a hobby and have expensive cameras so I'm considering offering one of them money for doing the photographs, and asking them to research wedding photography beforehand.. I'm SURE they'd be able to do some almost-as-nice shots? As long as they take tons of pictures and there's a least a few nice ones to put on display in the house then I'll be happy!
Also like you said I'll be asking guests to take as many photographs as possible! It's just so tempting to get a professional.. I was at a wedding fair and they had all the photographers stands where they make those amazing photo book albums but all in all it would cost near enough 1500! xx