My husband and I have been TTC now for about 3 years with no luck. Lately I have been wondering if given his age we should now stop trying. I am 37 and he is 54 and we have been together now for 13 years. He has two kids from a first marriage (who are now both in their mid twenties with kids of their own) and agreed to try with me as he knew how much it meant to me. My question is ... Is it fair to a child to have a father that age? My thought has always been you never know what life will bring as you could get hit by a bus tomorrow but wanted to get some of your opinions for or against. Thanks for your opinions in advance ladies!