I am barely organized. We have a few clothes left over from DS that are gender neutral, since we won't find out for another 3 weeks. We have some diapers, wipes, swaddling blankets, breast pump and storage, boppies, sheets, all the little hygiene things, and still have DS's travel system that we can use if we have another boy(It might work for a girl too. It's fairly neutral). And we only have all that stuff because we had it from DS. We have to find a new bassinet, as the one we used with DS was recalled shortly after DS was born(and I never knew it until recently! I'm so glad nothing happened.) DS's bouncer was already second hand and will be replaced as soon as we find out what LO is. DS will move to his first bed sometime before baby moves to crib and baby will get his crib.
We won't be doing much to the nursery, as both kids will be sharing once baby moves to a crib, so it will just be a pale pastel yellow. Then they can have wall stickers with their own characters. I wish they had separate rooms so I could decorate like I did with DS's old room in our last house(I created a cartoon giraffe that was painted on the wall, and puffy clouds all over blue walls.)