Elski
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Hey girls
Just after some advice/tips really. My OH and I have been NTNP for a year or so now, and 'formally' trying (OPKs, BBT etc) for 4 cycles. And I know that really really isn't very long and up until now I've had a really positive outlook on things and haven't been obsessing about it (...too much ) but I'm starting to waver a bit now.
Soooo many people I know at the moment are pregnant, 16 to be precise - my SIL, 2 of my cousins, 5 of OH's friends, 6 of my friends - and just over the last couple of weeks, my best friend and another really close friend too. I feel downhearted and crushed. My 2 close friends have asked me to care for their pregnancies (I'm a midwife), which I feel truly honoured about and so excited to do, but I feel like I really need to shake off the feelings I have or I'm gonna do my own head in (haha, I guess I'm in totally the wrong job for TTCing!). Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with the feelings you experience every time you find out yet another person is pregnant?
Thanks ladies
Just after some advice/tips really. My OH and I have been NTNP for a year or so now, and 'formally' trying (OPKs, BBT etc) for 4 cycles. And I know that really really isn't very long and up until now I've had a really positive outlook on things and haven't been obsessing about it (...too much ) but I'm starting to waver a bit now.
Soooo many people I know at the moment are pregnant, 16 to be precise - my SIL, 2 of my cousins, 5 of OH's friends, 6 of my friends - and just over the last couple of weeks, my best friend and another really close friend too. I feel downhearted and crushed. My 2 close friends have asked me to care for their pregnancies (I'm a midwife), which I feel truly honoured about and so excited to do, but I feel like I really need to shake off the feelings I have or I'm gonna do my own head in (haha, I guess I'm in totally the wrong job for TTCing!). Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with the feelings you experience every time you find out yet another person is pregnant?
Thanks ladies