xxembobxx
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Hi all
I have a 10yr old who has always had an issue with respecting other peoples property. She touches everybody elses stuff and sometimes takes her older sisters things.
Recently however she has started to steal money. Last week she took £1 from a pile I had and although she denied it at first I managed to catch her out by pretending I knew she had taken it. I told her that as she had confessed I wouldn't punish her although she was not allowed treats that week.
She has just returned from staying at my mums and she has stolen £10 from her grandads wallet. She has spent some at the local shop and had the change in her purse. She is in her bedroom now but what punishment can I give her as we have punished her so many times over touching what is not hers and it's obviously not worked.
My first thought is to throw all of her bags and purses away as she has absolutely loads. If she doesn't have them it's one less place she can hide her loot.
Anyone else had the same thing occur and dealt with it so it didn't happen again? OH's solution is to take her to the police but I don't think that will bother her as she'll know they won't do anything.
I have a 10yr old who has always had an issue with respecting other peoples property. She touches everybody elses stuff and sometimes takes her older sisters things.
Recently however she has started to steal money. Last week she took £1 from a pile I had and although she denied it at first I managed to catch her out by pretending I knew she had taken it. I told her that as she had confessed I wouldn't punish her although she was not allowed treats that week.
She has just returned from staying at my mums and she has stolen £10 from her grandads wallet. She has spent some at the local shop and had the change in her purse. She is in her bedroom now but what punishment can I give her as we have punished her so many times over touching what is not hers and it's obviously not worked.
My first thought is to throw all of her bags and purses away as she has absolutely loads. If she doesn't have them it's one less place she can hide her loot.
Anyone else had the same thing occur and dealt with it so it didn't happen again? OH's solution is to take her to the police but I don't think that will bother her as she'll know they won't do anything.