how to sort out visits with the dad and newborn - really need some advice plz xxxx

[pinkbump1]

hi all, wonder if anyone can help.

I am 25 wks pregnant and have a lg who is 14 months old, I am not with there dad and found out I was pregnant after we split up.

Little girls dad has her for a few hours tues and wed 9 till 1 as he has work then he has her alternate sat and sun 10 till 3.

I am trying to think of a way on how to deal with him seeing new baby he is still planning on taking lg on them days so I'm not sure what to do and how to go about it coz its getting stressful xxx

ta all I know situation not ideal but just wondered if anyone can help because I want to try and sort it out before baby arrives than have to deal with it all after x

 

[MissDee-89]

Fob will be seeing the baby with me there, mainly because ill be breastfeeding though. Havent really got any advice im having a hard time sorting things out with him.
What are you doing when it comes to the birth? He makes me feel so evil when I tell him MY birth plan and he thinks he should have a say.