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I watched my friend give birth over a year ago, and probably the most excruciating thing I saw was not th blood or the pain, but the people. Family and friends were blowing up her phone and everyone else's to get a status update every 5 minutes, not to mention them just showing up randomly to the hospital to stick there head in, give unwanted advice, and just stand around awkwardly. Before you know it, it wasn't her birth anymore, but everyone else's.
Since this is my first, I'm being very animate about making sure my birth is going to stay something intimate between me and my hubby. After all, we were alone when we created her, I would like to be alone when we give birth to her. Plus I know myself, I like to host. If I know someone's sitting bored in the waiting room or just walking around the hospital, I'm going to send hubby after them to make sure there okay. My dream delivery? Having no one know that Emma is here, until she is actually here.
How do I tell my friends and family without sounding like a prude that they are not welcome to even set foot in the hospital and chances they will not even be notified when I go into labor?
Because I'm already getting people saying that there going to try and get days off work and verifying directions to the hospital. Would it be rude if I told everyone at the baby shower so I can explain it only once?
Since this is my first, I'm being very animate about making sure my birth is going to stay something intimate between me and my hubby. After all, we were alone when we created her, I would like to be alone when we give birth to her. Plus I know myself, I like to host. If I know someone's sitting bored in the waiting room or just walking around the hospital, I'm going to send hubby after them to make sure there okay. My dream delivery? Having no one know that Emma is here, until she is actually here.
How do I tell my friends and family without sounding like a prude that they are not welcome to even set foot in the hospital and chances they will not even be notified when I go into labor?
Because I'm already getting people saying that there going to try and get days off work and verifying directions to the hospital. Would it be rude if I told everyone at the baby shower so I can explain it only once?