fuschia
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So hubby has the ttc performance anxiety.
Didnt expect this but I guess from now on I need to keep info about fertile days to myself.
Just had a massive row and I cried at him cos we agreed to try this am but becauss he tried to 'get himself excited' and it didnt work ( which is pretty obv as im the one that has had to do that all the time with big efforts!) He just went downstairs and got ready for work .
Im not upset about his performancr anxiety ( though I am frustrated) but he wasnt even prepared to try this am .
I wonder if anyone more experiened with the ovulation tracking woukd know if we still have a chance tonight? ( I wont tell hubby! )
My cycle was 31 days last month ( has varied between 28-31). Been doing clear blue dig ov each morning. Got 1st smiley face yest ( cd15) and another at 4am this morn (cd16). Im thinking my surge must be coming to an end now though. Am I still fertile after the surge? Would I get a positive opk when im actually ovulating or only just before?
Im just wondering if I still have time this month basically?
1 other thing ( sorry !) We eventually managed to get the deed done last night with a lot of work from me and only with me on top. Honestly is this going to work? Obv as I come off hik it all comes out! I still flipped onto back and shoved legs in the air but I was wondering if there was any point!?
Aah so confused !
Didnt expect this but I guess from now on I need to keep info about fertile days to myself.
Just had a massive row and I cried at him cos we agreed to try this am but becauss he tried to 'get himself excited' and it didnt work ( which is pretty obv as im the one that has had to do that all the time with big efforts!) He just went downstairs and got ready for work .
Im not upset about his performancr anxiety ( though I am frustrated) but he wasnt even prepared to try this am .
I wonder if anyone more experiened with the ovulation tracking woukd know if we still have a chance tonight? ( I wont tell hubby! )
My cycle was 31 days last month ( has varied between 28-31). Been doing clear blue dig ov each morning. Got 1st smiley face yest ( cd15) and another at 4am this morn (cd16). Im thinking my surge must be coming to an end now though. Am I still fertile after the surge? Would I get a positive opk when im actually ovulating or only just before?
Im just wondering if I still have time this month basically?
1 other thing ( sorry !) We eventually managed to get the deed done last night with a lot of work from me and only with me on top. Honestly is this going to work? Obv as I come off hik it all comes out! I still flipped onto back and shoved legs in the air but I was wondering if there was any point!?
Aah so confused !