Nats, I can relate to what you are saying.
My OH was saying yesterday that it is a shame that we have not conceived yet, as what we hoped it to tell our families at Christmas as a nice suprise. We never thought it would be so difficult.
However, Nats, your approach now is great, the calm, relax taking yoga and other things. I have not taken my temps in the last 3 days and I feel far more relaxed.
You know what? This might sound weird but... As much as I want to get a BFP... It would make me sad if none of you gilrs got it as well... it is strange and probably one of my sloppy moments, but I feel we both want it so much that we should have a child at the same time. As we share the TTC stories, we could share the Prengancy and baby moments...
This is another of my hopes....