I am an idiot

[Jem_x3]

Just a rant really.. I posted a thread about FOB and how he just decided to get angry and not want anything to do with me and baby well what I didn't mention was my HIP grant went into his bank account around the time we had a huge fight. I trusted him explicitly with it but he spent it, saying he expected an EMA payment of the same amount and that it wasn't his fault and to not give him shit he'll pay it when that EMA payment comes through.. well that came and went. He then told me he'd give it to me when he gets paid. Bearing in mind he told me this like 2 weeks ago and he's been ignoring me ever since and now I just don't know if I'm going to get it at all ugh! I'm so stupid!! It's not even money for me there's lots of things I want to buy for bubs and I'm so upset now he just ignores all my texts and messages on facebook asking him if and when he's going to pay me. Can he be that heartless to not give me it back?

 

[Archies Mummy]

What a tw@ who spends there kids money? It aint your fault hunnie, you should be able to trust your baby father!!

 

[Miss_d]

speak to the department that issues out the payment, basicly its theft u trusted him and didnt expect him to do that! good luck

 

[lynne192]

i would maybe try going through someone else to get his attension or go to home face to face, the money is the baby's which he needs to pay you hun. i am sorry your having to go through so much, sometimes people can be so heartless and selfish

 

[Laura2919]

I think that is just completely wrong and what an arse he is being. If the money was for him to spend then yeah but he knew full well because of how it comes up in your bank! What a loser.. So much better without him clearly!!!

 

[sweetlullaby]

Omg what a complete.......just omg!!! That money comes in very very useful when your expecting! I would contact the police or at least threaten him with it that you will contact the police and get him charged for theft. The money is paid by the Government to YOU not him!

What a sick sick boy Have you tried going to his parents? I would have been dragging him down the street by his ear telling everyone what he done lol

 

[purpledahlia]

jeez what a lowlife!! Is there anyone else you can go to about it, any of his family members? best friend? maybe get them on board to talk some sense into him? x

 

[Jem_x3]

No unfortunately to him and everyone else I'm in the wrong.. he's so good at manipulating to make it seem like the sun shines out of his arse. I just don't know anymore.. he told me he wants nothing to do with me and to f- off. I hate him so much

 

[lynne192]

when your baby is born make sure you go to CSA and get as much from him as you can if he is going to be an ass make sure he pays for it. also talk to people who issued your money and say that he stole it, which he did. make sure everything is always in your name hun.

 

[scottishgal89]

is there not some kind of way you can report him?
what an idiot

 

[purpledahlia]

yeah in that case i would call up the people who issue it, cant remember who they are.. tell them it went into his acc and hes stolen it can they do anything..

 

[Jem_x3]

I just don't understand.. a few weeks ago we were in love and me and this baby were his world, he'd do anything for us. What is it with men who think they can turn their backs on a life they had an equal part in making just because it's not growing inside of them? I'm so sick to death of feeling like I've done something wrong when I know I haven't.. Clearly he doesn't know what love is.. ugh.. sorry I'm ranting but I'm just hurting so bad today, I really thought he'd want a part in the baby's life but he doesn't and it's killing me because I feel like it's all my fault she's never going to know her father.. I'll try contacting someone about it but they'll probably just tell me it's my fault because it is for trusting a spineless a-hole

 

[purpledahlia]

your baby wont need anyone other than you, you will do fab! I found pregnancy much much harder than actually being her mum and doing it alone. pregnancy makes everything seem worse, once that baby is here you will feel so much stronger!

 

[lynne192]

can sympatise hun my son has never met his father, i have tried to get his dad to even take a look at him but he just becomes violent and such, you'll give your baby all the love she needs and thats all that matters, honestly hun your kid wont be bothered or effected. better off without him hun x