I am so affraid :(

[suzan]

I just knew that I am pregnant.

I was pregnant before. We knew I was pregnant on May 26, making me 4 weeks. We had first ultrasound and we heard the heartbeat. Later on I started feeling nauseas, my bbs just hurted so bad, and I just couldnt move bec of the nauseas!! suddenly, a day came and I just didnt feel pregnant anymore, no more nauseas, and my breasts even shrank Went to see my doc and surprisingly when he was doing the ultrasound, we couldnt find the little heartbeat

Reason? unknown.. doctors just told me that "it happens, it's nature"

I am so affraid to pass thru that again. Please God make this pregnancy "the one" and bless me with a little baby. I am gona take care of myself much better than before. Wont move much, actually not gona move a finger!

I work 5 days a week, 8 hrs a day. I have a pretty practical job as an assistant which doesnt need me to move all the time, but sit and work (Am at work now! ) and my DH has told me if I just get annoyed or unconfortable or even stressed from work, just to resign. I dont need to work, my DH's income is great, but I completed my univ degree and its great to work with it and also if I stay at home, I will die from boredom.

I just want to hear some supporting words and if u know anyone who passed thru this, please let me know how she did.

thank you all

 

[cheryl]

I knew a few people who had a miscarage and then went on to have a healthy baby in there next pregnancy. I don't know much about it myself, but i am praying you have a happy and healthy 9 months. Try not to over do things relax and take it easy. Try not to stress yourself out too.
Luv Cheryl xxx

 

[suzan]

Thanks cheryl. Great to hear that. I am trying to do my best not to stress about it at all. I want this baby! and for that, I will do things right.

thanks hun

 

[anita665]

I can imagine how you feel. I've been pregnant before and miscarried. It was an early mc and it's odd but I just felt it wouldn't last. Of course I really hoped it would and was really upset when I began to bleed, hoping somehow I'd be told it was ok - but I knew deep down from the start it would fail.

This time around, as soon as I got the positive test I had a good feeling that it was a strong pregnancy. Of course I'm just over 12 weeks and could be wrong and I still worry about things going wrong, just like anyone else but my gut feeling is that it will be ok.

My aunty went through about 6 mc's before finally having a baby. They weren't sure why it kept happening to her but she got there in the end. Try to stay positive and best of luck this time around!! xx

 

[Linzi]

Im really sorry to hear about your loss. I have never been through that and pray I never will.

Youre doing the right thing by taking it easy, and your other half sounds lovely, so let him do the running around for a bit and take the weight off your feet!

I sincerely hope everything goes well for you this time honey.

xxx

 

[Carolina]

im really sorry for your loss suzan. 2 of my family had 1 miscarriage each. they both went on to have 6 healthy kids between them! Anyone I know who had a miscarriage only had then one and then continued to have healthy babies! Maybe with some people the body recognises whats going on the second time round and there body is more prepared...just a theory!

Your dh is right dont let anything stress you because that plays havoc with your body! put ur feet up!!

 

[Serene123]

Oh, I'm sorry. Alot of my friends have had miscarriages. My mum had 3 miscarriages, then, when she had me my twin was stillborn. All that stuff worries me but I have a good feeling about this buba ! Just stay positive and relax as much as you need. My friend had a miscarriage, got pregnant shortly after, and just gave birth to a beautiful little boy ! Goodluck

 

[Holldoll]

I have had 2 miscarriages. My first two were at 6 weeks and 5 weeks respectively. My experience was a lot like Anita's. I just knew that they weren't going to stay, I wanted them, but in my heart I didn't feel it.

This time as soon as I found out, I knew it would "stick." I'm still only 10 weeks so we aren't out of the clear yet, but I feel good about this one. After we saw the heartbeat it made a HUGE difference!

 

[Tam]

Hun what you are feeling is very normal........but there is no reason at all that this bean should not stick, you have every reason for this little one to stick! It is normal for people without your experience to worry too, so the fact that you have had a sad loss will just make it worse! Please try not to worry babe and hang on in there til you have that 1st scan.......have you been offered more frequent scans to start with due to your loss?

You will be fine babe, and so will little'un! https://i110.photobucket.com/albums/n86/no1tam/Hugs/000bigblinky_ani_bearhugs.gif