Sandie_Cali
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I had enough, and enough is enough..
I couldnt take it anymore, he was just too much for me yesterday and it broke the camels back. He said horrible things to me, that I definately did not deserve.
I am on complete bedrest now and he called me lazy.. But MY apartment is not dirty nor filthy.. Even though I am on bedrest I get up and cleaned what I could in little time phrame and he never went hungry.
Telling me I dont take care of my 4 yerar old daughter.. She would have nothing if it were not for me to include clothing. I do everything for her from cooking to bathing her, reading to her, playing with her and buying her what she needs. He doesnt know what to do for her and all he ever does is sleep. I am her sole caregiver.
He even got upset and broke a water bottle not 2 feet from my face with his hands and threw it all over my livingroom. I did not move nor show emotion, I just told him to clean it up.
I told him to leave several times and he would not last night. I slept in the bedroom and he slept in the livingroom. When I woke up he was night and day kissing my arse, but its over and I dont want to be with him anymore.
I told him I thought about what he had said yesterday and decided that we should break up and that when he gets out of work I want him to take his stuff and leave. I told him why I didnt want to be with him and that I didnt want him there at the delivery. I told him I dont want him near me during the remainder of my pregnancy and that we would talk after the baby was born as far as when he could see the baby.
I will be moving after I am released back to Texas to be with my family. And I told him he could come see them whenever he wanted and have all the contact with them that he wanted. I am not going to keep my kids from knowing him nor being in his life.
Anyways that is the short of the blow up last night. Now I am 2 weeks 4 days from having my baby via c-section and I am alone.
I couldnt take it anymore, he was just too much for me yesterday and it broke the camels back. He said horrible things to me, that I definately did not deserve.
I am on complete bedrest now and he called me lazy.. But MY apartment is not dirty nor filthy.. Even though I am on bedrest I get up and cleaned what I could in little time phrame and he never went hungry.
Telling me I dont take care of my 4 yerar old daughter.. She would have nothing if it were not for me to include clothing. I do everything for her from cooking to bathing her, reading to her, playing with her and buying her what she needs. He doesnt know what to do for her and all he ever does is sleep. I am her sole caregiver.
He even got upset and broke a water bottle not 2 feet from my face with his hands and threw it all over my livingroom. I did not move nor show emotion, I just told him to clean it up.
I told him to leave several times and he would not last night. I slept in the bedroom and he slept in the livingroom. When I woke up he was night and day kissing my arse, but its over and I dont want to be with him anymore.
I told him I thought about what he had said yesterday and decided that we should break up and that when he gets out of work I want him to take his stuff and leave. I told him why I didnt want to be with him and that I didnt want him there at the delivery. I told him I dont want him near me during the remainder of my pregnancy and that we would talk after the baby was born as far as when he could see the baby.
I will be moving after I am released back to Texas to be with my family. And I told him he could come see them whenever he wanted and have all the contact with them that he wanted. I am not going to keep my kids from knowing him nor being in his life.
Anyways that is the short of the blow up last night. Now I am 2 weeks 4 days from having my baby via c-section and I am alone.
That must be very hard, but, I do think you've made the right decision for your children. Good luck to you.
