I belong here now.

[Jellyt]

I haven't been on here in ages but my partner and I have recently split so I thought i'd come and say hi. We have a daughter who is three in May called Evelyn. I'm getting my own place soon for me and Evelyn and i'm really overwhelmed. I'd lived with OH since I was 18 so for nearly seven years now so it'll be the first time i've lived alone. I know I won't be actually alone because i'll have LO but you know what I mean! So yeah, hello

 

[Shezza84uk]

Welcome sorry to hear about your seperation, the ladies here are very supportive I'm sure you will be fine living alone it has its perks and its nice not having to share your LO xx

 

[MorganEvans]

sorry to hear about that, but i hope you'll find comfort and help from here

 

[babycrazy1706]

hello
me too. i belong here now...... we split yesterday and have a 7month old son.
i hope we can all be here for each other on here. hugs. Xx

 

[Shezza84uk]

You will find lots of comfort here although it can be a bit quiet at times hope your ok xx

 

[babycrazy1706]

You will find lots of comfort here although it can be a bit quiet at times hope your ok xx

thanks

are you single too?

 

[Shezza84uk]

You will find lots of comfort here although it can be a bit quiet at times hope your ok xx

thanks

are you single too?

Yh I am x

 

[babycrazy1706]

Ok Xx

 

[Jellyt]

Thank you, ladies . That's lovely to hear! xxx

 

[PinkLady17]

I haven't been on here in ages but my partner and I have recently split so I thought i'd come and say hi. We have a daughter who is three in May called Evelyn. I'm getting my own place soon for me and Evelyn and i'm really overwhelmed. I'd lived with OH since I was 18 so for nearly seven years now so it'll be the first time i've lived alone. I know I won't be actually alone because i'll have LO but you know what I mean! So yeah, hello

Hey Jelly,, im going through a separation too and we have a 3 month old baby.... yeah and i know what you mean, i feel lonely too sometimes, not actually missing him, but missing male company, sounds kinda pathetic?? maybe? lol..

 

[Jeffrey]

The first [i dont know how many] months were hard, I wont lie, not because I missed him [he was a nasty piece of work most of the time] but because I had NEVER lived alone before [moved out of parents house at 16 to be with him] and since then he had always controlled bills etc. I did get quite lonely for adult company in the evenings at first too. Now though I genuinely LOVE living alone [with LO]. I love learning how to become an independent, self sufficient woman, i make ALL my own decisions now, my daughter is thriving, i got to choose all my own furniture/decor etc, I cook and eat what I like, I have whoever I chose in the flat. And i'm at uni so have plenty of work to do in the evenings. It's ace. And ultimately I am healthier and my child is happier.

It will be hard but I know many single parents who believe they are in ideal situations [myself included!]. Big hugs hun, hopefully you'll find the positives in the situation soon