I can't believe I'm writing this

[lemontree12]

6months ago if U said I'd be writing this I'd say no way! But I'm here heartbroken and don't nowhere to turn!

After 5year together living and living together my ex boyfriend dumped me at 14weeks pregnant! It prob would of been sooner if he knew I wasn't going to get rid of my baby! He asked me to leave the home, which I have no family around here, so I did!! a few days later in town he ignored me which I couldn't deal with! I went after him and we had a debate, a female friend got involved and asked me "why I was having a baby with someone in wasn't with" like it was any of her business!!

We have barely spoke for the last 13weeks, a few angry txt messages from me struggling to accept the fact, this man who I thought loved me ditches me when I need him! I generally thought I was giving him
Time and space to come around, then mayb we could work towards building our relationship back!!

So at the weekend i found out that the "female friend" isn't just a friend they are in a relationship and have been for a while! I am gutted! I'm dealing with all these major changes to my life while he finds ways to make my life harder!! He does not want to be part my babies life and even tries to justifie him dating this girl!! "she's a nice girl, she helped me threw this hard time, she's prob just a rebound" but yet he still doesn't see how all this has hurt
Me!!

I have went mad at him in big long messages!! Which i no I prob shouldn't of, but he refused to talk to me for 13weeks and only
Rang a few times this week, to which it was all his side, how he is feeling, not listening to!
Iv left a message asking him never to get in touch again, and they both deserve eachother, because what woman does that to another woman knowing the story!! Some people are so heartless and cruel!!

When I wake I feel dread in my stomach from all the pain caused
Any advice ladies??

 

[Xuxa]

sending you i was a single mother once and all i can say is one day you are going to wake up with butterflies in your stomach because you are so happy! someone who deserves you and loves your child will make you feel happier than you have ever been...

keep your chin up, look forward to seeing your baby, and one day it will all be better.

As for the chick he is with, don't worry hunny. Karma is a bitch and sooner or later she will have her fair share of it. xxxx

 

[lemontree12]

Thank u! I'm trying so hard to stay strong, because I know breaking down isnt going to change what he has done, it's so hard!

I hope karma gets both of them!

And I hope the decisions he has made in the last 3months are the decisions he is wanting to stay with for life! Because he is no longer welcome on my life

X

 

[Xuxa]

Good for you! And good luck!

Karma gets us all don't worry.xx

 

[george83]

i was in a similair situation with my husband when i fell pregnant. we planned the baby but as soon as i fell pregnant he decided he wasn't interested, started 'working' all the hours he could and the 'friend' he worked with became his girlfriend - i'm almost convinced this happened before i was even pregnant which hurts like hell. I wish i could tell you it gets easier but i'm struggling and my baby is 8 months old now. After you've had the baby you will have something else to focus on and something that you honestly will love and protect more than you could imagine which helps. But even now when my baby is in bed i sit and cry for everything i've lost. i know i can sit here and say that some men don't deserve to be a dad and all that but it won't change how you feel. I just wish you weren't having to go through it xxxxxxxxx

 

[lemontree12]

She is also a friend from work! Is your husband still with that woman? Im just praying for karma to give him pain!

 

[whoknowsx]

I'm in a similar situation. OH left me when I turned 12 weeks pregnant (about a week ago) saying he cant see a happy future with me. If you need someone to talk too, I am here.

Its rough but I trust it will get better.