I cant have sex :(

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  1. georgie1991

    georgie1991 Well-Known Member

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    The last few times me and my OH have had sex the baby has started kicking and its put both of us off and we have to stop n try again wen shes calmed down.
    Its really irritating, as im one of thm woman who's sex drive has increased greatly , and i wnt nothing more thn to have no peaceful sex without the bump kicking me.
    I keep thinkin she knows wat were doing, its sooo annoying.
    does anyone kno wat i cud do to knock her out before we have sex :p

    xxxxx
     
  2. ClaireyF

    ClaireyF Joshua & Bump to be!

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    :rofl: i just try and ignore it, my sex drive has increased aswell. xx
     
  3. classyburd

    classyburd Mummy to Archie

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    Think yourself lucky you can still have sex, my OH wont gimmie any until after babys here, says he dont feel right :(
     
  4. georgie1991

    georgie1991 Well-Known Member

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    lol shes hard to ignore atm, specially wen shes kicking right behind my cervix's.
    i sit there thinking, shes kicking me saying mummy stop it i kno wat ur doing lol
     
  5. georgie1991

    georgie1991 Well-Known Member

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    Awww im starting to worry hes gna say tht to me soon, no sex till she comes out lol
    :hug:
     
  6. classyburd

    classyburd Mummy to Archie

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    Not had anything for 9mnths!
     
  7. overcomer79

    overcomer79 LT-TTC success 3.5yrs

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    Hahahaha Georgie...that DOES sound like a personal problem!!!!! Wait til she is born then she will start crying when yall are :sex:!!! Can't wait to read that thread ;)!
     
  8. dizzy duck

    dizzy duck Mummy to Oliver

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    Aww hun, we have been lucky and it seems to happen when he is sleeping, all I can suggest it waiting till you have a quiet period then go for it :rofl:, hope this doesn't put him off. Take care :hugs: XX
     
  9. Dukechick

    Dukechick Wife & proud Mom of 2

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    Try drinking some Whiskey!.... KIDDING!!!

    I have no idea hun. Good luck. I'm not allowed to have sex cuz of my placenta, so I don't even know what it's like to try :(

    xx
     
  10. kirsty x

    kirsty x Well-Known Member

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    ive got no sex drive watsoever anymore im just no interested, poor OH haha
     
  11. pixie87

    pixie87 Well-Known Member

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    same here, just when i finally started to want it! he had no problem in the first tri! men!!:dohh:
     
  12. Abblebubba

    Abblebubba WTT Sept '15 - #2

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    Awws Girls, dont you find it makes the bond between you two even more intimate? when me and my OH used to do it throughout second tri the baby would kick but then the rocking motions send bubs off to sleep the baby probably finds it quite comforting. I am quite upset now i got to 35 weeks almost it hurts too much to do anything, but dont look at it as a weird thing honey tell your OH to remember how bubs got there in the first place hehe. Baby doesnt know what you are doing i promise :rofl: xx
     
  13. Faerie

    Faerie Proud Mummy

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    I find that the baby tends to stop after a while, we both manage to ignore it anyway, too horny not too!
     
  14. Tammi

    Tammi New Mommy

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    Sex ??? What's that ? :rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
  15. Kissie

    Kissie Member

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    Same here! Last time we tried - he stopped, because he was constantly thinking about the baby.

    And he kicks so much, even when I try to "unload" by myself - its really really hard to concentrate :S : ( ( ((( ((((
     
  16. FierceAngel

    FierceAngel Guest

    lol ive had no sex since i was 26 weeks oh just couldnt do it

    just waiting for bleeding to stop now :dohh:
     
  17. sarah_george

    sarah_george ♥Proud Mummy!♥

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    How big I am now I find I can only do it Doggy Style and to be honest I dont really feel him moving when I'm in that position (the baby I mean :rofl:) worth a try hun xx
     
  18. georgie1991

    georgie1991 Well-Known Member

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    lol thanks, i was havin a giggle readin thru some of thm posts lol
    im just gna try ignore her, my OH dnt mind its just me lol

    i think i shud make the most of her just kicking lol and not screaming n crying everytime we try get down n dirty lol


    xxxx
     
  19. princess_vix

    princess_vix Guest

    Luckily my little un is usually asleep but it usually rocks him to sleep and he stays quiet for a while...it's supposed to be comforting to them.

    x
     

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