Younglutonmum
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Well following on from yesterdays thread - https://www.babyandbump.com/single-parents/84956-dare-he.html
All night I was really mad over it so I decided enough is enough & today I got up the courage to walk into his work place & confront him. I didn't shout, lose my temper. I was perfectly calm & polite which seemed to annoy him more.
I went up to him & as usual he just pretended not to see us so I just said i'm just here to tell you to stop with the lies, stop saying you see Maya & also I think you have a nerve saying she looks like you!
He went bright red. Then he said well what am I meant to tell people? I said the truth then he said but that makes me look like a c**t. I just said well you are aren't you? He then told me the CSA have been in touch & I have a nerve asking him for money for a baby he isn't interested in & that he will be taking me to court. So I replied what you want access? Then he said no of course not, I just want to stop you taking my money. I told him no solicitor in the world would take his case on as that is the whole point of the CSA - to make absent fathers pay up. At this point he went soooo red. Really started shouting at me calling me a knob & c**t in front of all the customers. Not once did I lose it
Then he said get out of my shop. Hun I said if it was your shop i'd be getting alot more child support. This seemed to infuriate him more. Not once did he look at Maya so I made him look at her. Then I asked him how can he ignore someone so beautiful & perfect. The cheeky shit then said well thats what you think of her! I then basicly told him he is disgusting for not taking responsibility for his daughter all the while aware that many customers were listening & probably thinking he is a disgrace as I was being resonable & all he could do was swear at me
I then calmly walked out of the shop
I really feel like a weight has been lifted. I got to tell him what a shit he is & for once I was calm & not hysterical. I feel bloody great!
Ohhh & my cousin is writing into Primark head office. She is going to make out she was a customer who overheard our argument & was disgusted by his language in the work place considering I was just being polite. Childish? Perhaps! Feels good? Oh yes!!!
All night I was really mad over it so I decided enough is enough & today I got up the courage to walk into his work place & confront him. I didn't shout, lose my temper. I was perfectly calm & polite which seemed to annoy him more.
I went up to him & as usual he just pretended not to see us so I just said i'm just here to tell you to stop with the lies, stop saying you see Maya & also I think you have a nerve saying she looks like you!
He went bright red. Then he said well what am I meant to tell people? I said the truth then he said but that makes me look like a c**t. I just said well you are aren't you? He then told me the CSA have been in touch & I have a nerve asking him for money for a baby he isn't interested in & that he will be taking me to court. So I replied what you want access? Then he said no of course not, I just want to stop you taking my money. I told him no solicitor in the world would take his case on as that is the whole point of the CSA - to make absent fathers pay up. At this point he went soooo red. Really started shouting at me calling me a knob & c**t in front of all the customers. Not once did I lose it
Then he said get out of my shop. Hun I said if it was your shop i'd be getting alot more child support. This seemed to infuriate him more. Not once did he look at Maya so I made him look at her. Then I asked him how can he ignore someone so beautiful & perfect. The cheeky shit then said well thats what you think of her! I then basicly told him he is disgusting for not taking responsibility for his daughter all the while aware that many customers were listening & probably thinking he is a disgrace as I was being resonable & all he could do was swear at me I then calmly walked out of the shop
I really feel like a weight has been lifted. I got to tell him what a shit he is & for once I was calm & not hysterical. I feel bloody great!
Ohhh & my cousin is writing into Primark head office. She is going to make out she was a customer who overheard our argument & was disgusted by his language in the work place considering I was just being polite. Childish? Perhaps! Feels good? Oh yes!!!
@ him thinkng the courts would stop him from paying up.
x
