I didnt think id ever be posting on the m/c parts of a forum again :(

[Maidenet]

I have lost my baby again

This is the 4th time now.

All tests say there is no reason for it to be happening in the areas they can test for at the minute.

I feel empty. I dont think I can try again if im honest, at least not for a very very long time.



I feel I am letting my partner down so much argh

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Im so sorry hunni
have u & your oh had any genetic testing

 

[SarahC]

I am very sorry to hear this.....maybe you could ask your GP for futher testing or anything else that they can offer you.

 

[AlwaysPraying]

I feel I am letting my partner down so much argh

I'm so sorry to hear what's going on. What you said about your partner is identical to how I feel. Our baby is alive (14 weeks now) with a lethal defect, so it will only be a matter of time, it seems. But like you, I feel so terrible for letting him down. Your not alone and need to take all the time you need to get through this yourself.

 

[Maidenet]

We have had all the tests done that are apparently possible right now, genetic testing was one of them and they all come back negative. xxx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

id go and demand answers babe u deserve answers! i no your pain i had 4 m/c's before i had a answer.

 

[Maidenet]

How did you find out huni what was up? Just because my Dr said that they have done all the tests? xxx

 

[embo216]

I know I posted on your post in 1st tri but I wanted to say how sorry I am again hun xxx

 

[Maidenet]

Thanks huni xxx

 

[Aidedhoney]

So sorry honey xxx

 

[Naya69]

im so sorry hunny about your loss xxbig hugsxx

 

[Widger]

I'm really sorry to hear about your recent loss. As we have both stated on recurrent mc thread, it sucks that after having all the tests they can't find anything wrong! Not that you want there to be... but if only a pill or something could sort it out. As far as I'm concerned we are all pretty unlucky if we have one mc, let alone four! There must be something else they haven't looked for. I'm really sorry. Hope you are ok xx

 

[jen35]

So sorry hunni, you're in my thoughts and sending you lots of hugs

 

[borntobeamum]

Im so sorry to hear that. sending you

But please do not feel like you are letting anyone down, you have to remember its not your fault, (which I know is easier said than done)

Getting though 1 MC is hard enough, but to go though it over and over again must be so hard.

my heart goes out to you.

xx

 

[polo_princess]

im so sorry to hear your news

 

[dan-o]

Oh god, I am so sorry, not again
I've been following your story & I really thought this time you would be OK.
Don't think for a minute you are letting ANYONE down, this is NOT your fault.
Sending lots of hugs xx

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

i found out threw genetic testing. had 10 viles taken over a period of 3 months and OH had 3 viles. i was tested for everything that could be possibly wrong except PCOS which i knew it wasnt as id had alot of scans previously

 

[babytots]

so sorry for your loss hunni x

 

[soulsister]

Hi

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss.

and also, to you and alwayspraying - dont ever, not even for one minute, think that you are letting you partners down. I am sure that everytime they see you go through how hard this is, they love you both just that little bit more for seeing how strong you both are.

I wish you both all peace at this difficult time

Laura x

 

[Fluxuspoem]

I am so sorry for you loss again honey

Have you heard of Professor Lesley Regan? She runs an excellent recurrent miscarriage clinic in St Mary's Hospital in Paddington she is supposed to deliver amazing results.

You could be reffered through your GP - it could take up to 6 months to be seen, but I've heard that they are really excellent!

Here is another forum discussing this https://www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/fo...?topic=80265.0

Big hugs