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I don't know how much more I can take

manda22

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The father of my baby is a jerk!!! I'm so tired of him making me feel like shit! He needed some papers today so I got them ready for him. He comes over and doesn't come in and doesn't even ask to see our daughter. I asked him to bring some diapers and he says he doesn't have time for that WTF?! Seriously. We are not even officially broken up but I don't know if I can take any more of this pain he's causing me. 2 weeks before I'm due he starts causing drama and I'm pretty sure the reason why she came
Early is because of all the stress he had caused me. He was great in the hospital and once we got home he turned back into a jerk. He would yell at me Because she was crying and said if we had our own place she would be in another room. I'm sorry but my newborn is not going to be away from me. If that isn't it he gets on me for not having sex with him. I was on bed rest for my pregnancy because of placenta previa and now that I've had a c section I can't have sex for at least 6 weeks. Screw the Fact that I'm in pain as long as you are satisfied right? I told him I wanted to work on our relationship and he says he's no doctor Phil. I don't know how much more of this I can take. He was my provider and now it doesn't even sound like he will provide for her. I never thought I would end up a single mommy:(. I just wish I could feel better. I love my daughter but I'm so scared.
 
Sorry to hear this hun. He sounds like a complete idiot. Sounds like he is scared of the responsibility. Seems to be a common theme around here! Sending you massive :hugs:
 
As scary as single parenthood sounds it isn't so terrible. It isn't easy but it doesn't sound like you're having an easy time right now! I can only imagine how frustrating that is especially when you are suffering physically and now emotionally too! hugs to you and hang in there. Get some people in your corner for support and venting. All the best!
 
Being a single parent... Would be better than being treated like that :( x
 
you can rise above this, trust me. so many of us are dealing with or have dealt with the same. you are so strong on your own!
 
Being a single mum would be better for yourself and for your baby, it will only carry on if you allow it to, men can be insensitive dicks sometimes and selfish! I was a single mum for 7 years (been with my partner 2 years now) and it was the best thing i could of done for my children, because if they saw how i was being treated they would of ended up treating me the same way or worse being treated like that themselves! It can be hard, lonely and tiring but the rewards for knowing how brilliantly you have brought up your child on your own is the best feeling ever! Try not to feel down dont bother with him hes not worth it, you and your baby are first enjoy it as it goes way too fast, ever need to talk pm me x
 

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