I dont know whats wrong with me

[sparkle_1979]

I feel completely numb towards this pregnancy, i haven't even been to the doctors and have no idea when I will. I think I'm ten weeks and should have had at least 2 scans by now.

The last one I was worried sick about every pain ect but now Im just like whatever...is it normal to be this cold. This is my 5th preg and I have one little girl.

I'd love another baby but why am I not worried or happy? Last time I was a nervous reck

 

[Embo78]

I think what you're doing is what is completely natural after four losses. Self preservation. You're trying to protect yourself from the pain and hurt of another potential miscarriage.

I think you should definitely go to your doctors and get the ball rolling now you're ten weeks. It's good for you and the baby to be monitored.

I hope that once you get your scan and see your healthy little bean you'll be able to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy.

Sending lots of

 

[hb1]

a very human response to the pain you have gone through

Def go to the Dr's tho so you can get your 12 week scan.

hx

 

[Pippin]

Ditto t what the lovely ladies have said before. Maybe you'll get excited once you have seen the wee bubba. COngratulations though. xxx

 

[sparkle_1979]

Thanks everyone. Lovely to see you here still pipin so cant be long? x

 

[herewego]

Agree with all the above - you're in defense mode and its totally normal and doesn't in any way reflect on you as a mother xx

I still feel indifferent towards this pregnancy sometimes, then on others I'm hysterical because I'm so afraid of something happening to this little one. Hang in there, do go to the Drs though sweetheart, they need ot be able to make sure you're ok.

 

[kimbotrav]

Thanks everyone. Lovely to see you here still pipin so cant be long? x

hi i can completely understand ive had 4 misscarriages and it can make u feel like you dont even want to get excited because it will get taken away...but maybe if you go for a scan and see the baby you may start to warm up to it a little ure at 10 weeks thats brill so far good luck

 

[Blondie007]

I know how you feel. I didnt go to the doctors until I was passed 10 weeks as that was when I had my MC last time. I still struggle with things now and I am due next week but it does get a little bit easier to cope with as each milestone comes and goes xx

 

[candylok]

Yes I think you should see a doctor! Probably hormonal changes in early pregnancy.