awwww hugs tight, your mum sounds like the people i lived with. i now live with my OH & his mum. Ang who i lived with was always like that to me about everything you name it, she had even been voilent at times. mums/carers may always want the best but they are sometimes they are too controling and you just need to get out its very difficult, confusing and upsetting but i knew i had to do it. If i was you i would get out as soon as you can, like you me and my OH wanted to keep our baby and no matter what any one said we were going to, luckily ang didnt put up too much of a fight about that but she did about moving about money and everything else.