I don't want to share!!!!!

[Moulder86]

I've just realise if Max's dad actually starts sorting things out I'm going to have to share my lil man with him and his new so called fiancee (sp)!!!

I don't want to share!! I know it sounds childish and I never wanted to intentionally keep Rich away from him (totally the opposite in fact) but he hasn't had much involvement at all in the past 5 months. I'm the one who's done everything for him, I'm the one bringing him up n now I might have to share him with a loser father and a complete B*&^%!!

I have all these horrible worries about how they might decide I'm a horrible mother and try to take him away or try 2 turn him against me or something.



sorry just needed 2 say something to someone xx

 

[Sarah88]

You are a wonderful mum and noone will ever take ur gorgeous lil man away!

 

[Moulder86]

Thanks Sarah, just read your thread about Savannah getting her ears pierced I hope it goes ok! Thanks again xx

 

[Sarah88]

Thanks hun. I hope it goes ok too, i'm so nervous!!

 

[Lucy&Pard]

Mummys are always number one! But the only thing you can do is be civil and mature about it!!!

 

[starbucks101]

Your not a bad Mum, and you'll always be number one!

Is Rich sorting things out or are you just thinking of "he might do it" Every other weekend parents & their partners are great fun & easy to malnipulate for kids but arent actually seen as "parents" by them in the end. Me & my "Dad" are a prime example.

 

[Moulder86]

He keeps saying he wants to see him and admittedly (sp) he always lets me down but I'm just worried if he does actually get his act together with his now fiancee that he is actually going to stand to his word.

I'm more worried about the what if rather than the it's happening (if that makes sense). I'm just being silly I know but I can't help to look at things from a negative point of view (one of my many flaws).

But thank you

xx

 

[princess_bump]

babes, ive just seen this, stace honey, no one is taking that beautiful boy, let alone rich!!! he couldn't look after a bloody self-cleaning suck-y fish!!! anyone would look and see how he constantly lets max down and what a wonderfully amazing job your doing, u no i couldnt do it, hes not going anywhere, and max doesn't have to have anything to do with 'IT' x x x

 

[Moulder86]

But Car what if he does actually get his act together, they get married and want to have Max at weekends and stuff. I don't think I could cope letting go, it's not as if I'm doing a great job but of course you could do it!! Anyway I know I'm just worrying about nothing but I can't help have the thoughts run through my head.

But thank you huni
xxx

 

[princess_bump]

But Car what if he does actually get his act together, they get married and want to have Max at weekends and stuff. I don't think I could cope letting go, it's not as if I'm doing a great job but of course you could do it!! Anyway I know I'm just worrying about nothing but I can't help have the thoughts run through my head.

But thank you huni
xxx

of course you can't help thinking it and worrying, it was always my mums biggest fear you no sweetie but you are COPING WONDERFULLY!!! and doing a bloody good job at it!! your building a life for you and max filled with love warmth and support, he couldn't offer any of it darling x x x