I Feel Like A Cow

[dawny690]

Well I know im silly and probably over emotional but how do you cope if you see people refering to their bean by the same "nickname" you had for yours everytime I see someone who has called their bean/baby by the same nickname mine had (my last one) I feel like or going and which is so wrong, I should be happy for people but just feel like jumping down their throats which is bad of me, luckily, my good friends who are pg dont call their beans by the same name as mine had, but I still find it hard, I think I just want to be pregnant again so much that its affecting me more than I realised if we dont have a by the end of may we will be taking a break for a while due to me having an op in june, if im pg the op can wait it isnt life threatning, I just an almost ready to say im obviously never ment to be a earth mummy and giving up completely, but I want to give it one more go you know, if it happens then great if not, then I get my op, lose some weight and maybe next year try then. Sorry to have a moan and a rant, I just feel better talking to you girls as my OH doesnt really fully understand. Thanks girls xx

 

[JASMAK]

Sorry you have to keep hearing your baby's nickname, that must be painful. I can relate to wanting to get pregnant right away. I often think that I am not just grieving my miscarriages, but also that I can't get pregnant too. It makes it so hard. We just have to hang in there and take it one day at a time.

 

[golcarlilly]

It is only natural to be upset, you have suffered a loss and that is not going to go away, time does heal though and you will find it easier to cope with, lots of ladies use the same terms for their LO's so please don't feel they are doing it to upset you. I promise you that as time goes by you will feel better

Best of luck and lots of for TTC and I am sure you will get to be a Mummy soon xx

 

[dawny690]

It is only natural to be upset, you have suffered a loss and that is not going to go away, time does heal though and you will find it easier to cope with, lots of ladies use the same terms for their LO's so please don't feel they are doing it to upset you. I promise you that as time goes by you will feel better

Best of luck and lots of for TTC and I am sure you will get to be a Mummy soon xx

Thanks I know people dont do it to upset me as half of them dont even know me or have never spoke to me, so i know its not intentional, it just upset me and made me realise its affected me more than i realise, thanks again hun

 

[dawny690]

Sorry you have to keep hearing your baby's nickname, that must be painful. I can relate to wanting to get pregnant right away. I often think that I am not just grieving my miscarriages, but also that I can't get pregnant too. It makes it so hard. We just have to hang in there and take it one day at a time.

Thanks hun, I know it gets easier after a while, the only thing that makes me feel slightly happier is to be pregnant still not 100% though xx

 

[Baby-Cakes]

Hi,

So sorry for your loss, I'm in a similar situation at work there was 5 of us who were pregnant, 1 due in June then 3 in August then me in Sept, we had made so many plans together: baby days out etc and I'm dreading going back I know thats it's going to be really hard to see them all and don't want to feel bitter towards them.

Thinking of and sending

 

[Barneyboo]

Just want to give you hugs lovely lady we are all here and understand completely what you mean x x x x x

 

[dawny690]

Just want to give you hugs lovely lady we are all here and understand completely what you mean x x x x x

Awww thanks you made me no one hardly calls me lovely anymore so thankyou xx