Come and wait with me in my tww :D GUESS WHO'S BACK YEP CRAZY WOMAN HERE

[autumnal]

That sounds great that it can be solved though! I'm sorry it might take some time but hey that's good overall. Awesome that the doc gave him some hormone therapy to speed it up.

 

[tdog]

Aww im so glad its not permanent and it will come back, might take a while but atleast it will! Thats so good about the hormone therapy tho xx

 

[RedRose19]

im sorry your going through that, and how awful they didnt say the side affects like wtf! im glad it should come back though

ive been dealing with extremely high anxiety like its affecting my every day. i then had to fill out a survey and it was flagged that i had high chance of post partum depression and that made me even more anxious but i know they are just trying to offer support and help but i feel like im out at sea and struggling to get back i also got told by my therapist im probably experiencing ptsd from my daughters birth and nicu stay
im hoping time just heals all

 

[tdog]

im sorry your going through that, and how awful they didnt say the side affects like wtf! im glad it should come back though

ive been dealing with extremely high anxiety like its affecting my every day. i then had to fill out a survey and it was flagged that i had high chance of post partum depression and that made me even more anxious but i know they are just trying to offer support and help but i feel like im out at sea and struggling to get back i also got told by my therapist im probably experiencing ptsd from my daughters birth and nicu stay
im hoping time just heals all

I want to give you a massive hug hunni must be so tough for you xx

 

[MrsKatie]

@HalfricanMa I am so sorry I’ve been MIA, I got so fed up with this stupid site not working that I stopped logging on for weeks. Seems better now and I’m here. I’m so sorry you’re still dealing with stupid endless TTC and the total devastation that comes with it. I’m here, message me any time or I can respond on the general thread, it’s just such a sh*tty journey and I’m so sorry. Praying for you always.

 

[HalfricanMa]

@HalfricanMa I am so sorry I’ve been MIA, I got so fed up with this stupid site not working that I stopped logging on for weeks. Seems better now and I’m here. I’m so sorry you’re still dealing with stupid endless TTC and the total devastation that comes with it. I’m here, message me any time or I can respond on the general thread, it’s just such a sh*tty journey and I’m so sorry. Praying for you always.

Thanks. Getting a sperm count of zero on the 10th month of ttc certainly doesnt feel nice in the ttc journey. Honestly, i’d prefer the devastation of miscarriage. I’ve had both now and can definitely say a zero sperm count sucks.
Hopefully it can resume production in a few months. I feel like our family will still grow, but I have to be happy with God’s plan if it’s closing the door on pregnancies/breastfeeding.

 

[MrsKatie]

Thanks. Getting a sperm count of zero on the 10th month of ttc certainly doesnt feel nice in the ttc journey. Honestly, i’d prefer the devastation of miscarriage. I’ve had both now and can definitely say a zero sperm count sucks.
Hopefully it can resume production in a few months. I feel like our family will still grow, but I have to be happy with God’s plan if it’s closing the door on pregnancies/breastfeeding.

Wait what?!? How did I miss this?? I am shocked. What did they say about this, how can that happen? I am absolutely devastated for you honey

 

[HalfricanMa]

Wait what?!? How did I miss this?? I am shocked. What did they say about this, how can that happen? I am absolutely devastated for you honey

yea. VA had him trying a medicine to help with sleep; Nothing said to us about it’s affect on hormones. His sample showed he’s sterile. That was on a friday, i ovulated prob the Tuesday that followed so that was a sad ovulation and now my tww is a day late for my period; negative on tests of course.
His primary doctor is attempting to reverse the effects with hormone treatments but said it will take at least 3-6 months (maybe even up to a year) to even get any sperm, never mind to be at a decent quantity. But the doc reassured us that having gotten pregnant relatively quickly with our two kids means his normal numbers are likely very good so we’re hopeful it’ll be more on the 3-6 month side of the estimated time.
Im just devastated.

 

[MrsKatie]

yea. VA had him trying a medicine to help with sleep; Nothing said to us about it’s affect on hormones. His sample showed he’s sterile. That was on a friday, i ovulated prob the Tuesday that followed so that was a sad ovulation and now my tww is a day late for my period; negative on tests of course.
His primary doctor is attempting to reverse the effects with hormone treatments but said it will take at least 3-6 months (maybe even up to a year) to even get any sperm, never mind to be at a decent quantity. But the doc reassured us that having gotten pregnant relatively quickly with our two kids means his normal numbers are likely very good so we’re hopeful it’ll be more on the 3-6 month side of the estimated time.
Im just devastated.

Ok I must’ve missed a page of responses or something because I had no idea you were going through this. Which sleep meds? That’s unconscionable, I can’t believe he was given those with such devastating and unacceptable side effects. I’m just so sorry.
Also- tried to PM you- it wouldn’t let me- would you try to send me a message? Want to see if it’ll work.
I’m so sorry

 

[tdog]

@HalfricanMa i cant believe the whole giving him the meds and not mentioning side affects that is all wrong, I have everything crossed it will resolve quickly like 3-6 months mark i honestly cant believe you're going through all this my heart bleeding for you honest xx

 

[HalfricanMa]

Thanks ladies.
I tried the dm but idk if it works.

 

[josephine3]

Hi ladies thought it was about time I stopped by... Looks quiet here, are people back on their own threads now?
@tdog and @MrsKatie adorable scan piccies!! Love them so much! And @tdog your family is so cute, your hubby to be (lol congrats) looks like such a good, nice guy. He looks so genuine.
@RedRose19 sorry about all the crazy health problems and bleeding/tests etc it must be driving you mad. Are you actively ttc again already?
@Xxenssial congrats amazing news for you!!
@HalfricanMa that sucks so much about the sperm count/meds situation I'd be so so annoyed that they didn't tell him about that as a side effect that's just wrong!

Afm, I'm still feeling like I'm done. I love the newborn stage but gosh I forgot how hard toddlers are! It's a good job he's cute lol cos I am exhausted!! I don't think I have it in me to do it again! Kudos to you mental mommas of many hahaha xx

 

[josephine3]

Oh and I officially have a teenager now!! My daughter turned 13 today!! Send help lol

 

[Xxenssial]

Hi ladies here is our update little miss joining our fam in Feb

 

[RedRose19]

Hi ladies thought it was about time I stopped by... Looks quiet here, are people back on their own threads now?
@tdog and @MrsKatie adorable scan piccies!! Love them so much! And @tdog your family is so cute, your hubby to be (lol congrats) looks like such a good, nice guy. He looks so genuine.
@RedRose19 sorry about all the crazy health problems and bleeding/tests etc it must be driving you mad. Are you actively ttc again already?
@Xxenssial congrats amazing news for you!!
@HalfricanMa that sucks so much about the sperm count/meds situation I'd be so so annoyed that they didn't tell him about that as a side effect that's just wrong!

Afm, I'm still feeling like I'm done. I love the newborn stage but gosh I forgot how hard toddlers are! It's a good job he's cute lol cos I am exhausted!! I don't think I have it in me to do it again! Kudos to you mental mommas of many hahaha xx

not trying but were not preventing so leaving it to the universe but if i had another it then would absolutely be the last, i got a gyne appt on the 28th

 

[tdog]

@josephine3 hey hunni nice to see you on here, yes we have our threads back now so yea its quiet here, oh thanks yes he is a nice guy he cant do enough for the kids and for me tbh they do say you have to kiss a lot of frogs to get your prince xx

 

[Teanna]

Hi! I'm stopping by, haven't logged on in a while and haven't checked the tww threads in ages. Got my last bfp in May 2023. Im happy to see some familiar people still on here.

I'm not really trying but the more cautious approach to avoiding pregnancy has more or less moved to not trying not preventing. Unexpected it's my partner who seems to be the reason for this and last month he actually asked if he could not pull out after I told him I was about to ovulate. I didn't end up pregnant though.

I want another baby but I'm not sure how I feel about a 2 year age gap so if it doesn't happen right away I'll be okay with that. This month we dtd without pulling out 4 days before I think I ovulated. The day after I had ewcm. We did after that too but he pulled out those times since we weren't really trying to end up pregnant this month. It seems probably unlikely but not impossible and up until today I hadn't even thought about it.

I'm 9dpo ish today and was home alone and bored and randomly decided to take a test. 9dpo was when I got my first hint of a line before. I really wasn't thinking I was pregnant as I hadn't noticed any symptoms. Though I felt like I noticed something catching my eye. Took a second test a few hours later and the same thing. I'm pretty sure I'm just tripping and it's nothing but now I'm noticing my boobs are feeling a bit tingly so now I'm driving myself crazy. Not sure if I'm only noticing because I thought I saw something. Again probably an indent, I have bad line eyes. What do you ladies think?